Gets Me Mad :/

WELL MY BF RECRUITERS ASKED HIM ONE DAY IF HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND, OBVIOUSLY HE SAID YES. WELL HIS RECRUITERS STARTED TELLING HIM STUFF LIKE WAS HE SURE AND IDK WHAT.
HE WAS TOLD THAT WE ALL LIE AND WE ARE HOES AND WONT REALLY STICK WITH THEM NO MATTER IF WE SAY WE ARE. ITZ REALLY ******* ME OFF. WELL I JUST WANTED TO KNOW IF THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU GUYS...

OH AND IMA ADD THAT HE HAD GOT A TICKET FOR DRIVING WITHOUT A LICENSE WHILE HE WAS TRYING TO BE PART OF THE MARINES. HE WAS SUPPOSED TO GET SHIPPED OFF IN JAN 3. HE ENDED UP PAYING IT OFF AND GETTING IT CLEARED WITH THE HELP OF HIS RECRUITER. THEN TODAY HE GETS ANOTHER TICKET. HE HAS HIS PERMIT BUT HE STILL CANT BE DRIVING ALONE ,THERE HAS TO BE A LICENSED PERSON AT ALL TIMES OF COURSE. AND TO TOP IT ALL OFF HE WAS DRINKING SO HE GOT A DUI. NOW HE HAS TO PAY ABOUT 10 GRAND. CAN HE STILL BECOME A MARINE IF HE PAYS IT OFF?

THANKS, ITZE
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4 Responses Aug 8, 2010

hey AJ and i werent together when he went to boot camp but he did tell me that the DI's and even the recruiters would say over and over again that girlfriends and wives would always cheat, lie, steal, sleep around etc. he also said that you could almost immediately see who believed it and who didnt and it's apprently an "edge up" on the recruit make them angry and they'll perform thier best also to try and get them angry enough to "forget" what they left behind i understand the logic behind it even if i dont agree with it!! <br />
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this will never ever go away AJ and I have been friends for forever and everyone we were friends with were like just get together we got together and everyone were suddenly like WHOA we not so happy about this as we thought we'd be!! AJ hears comments almost everyday and i hear things about AJ almost everyday but i have learnt to filter and so has AJ dont let it bug you! i know AJ and AJ knows me and we trust each other to the point it nearly freaks people out!! so ignore it as best you can you can get angry but honestly you it doesnt matter because you and your boyfriend know the truth and if something is said that bugs SPEAK UP and sort it out immediately!!

Hey i had to deal with same thing when Jason was in bootcamp and now that we got married it got worse in the sense it's like i have to proove myself all the time and every second of the day! Jasons old partner and i became very good friends especially when Jason went to bootcamp so every now and then we see each other and get together the day after our wedding one of Jasons recruiters told Jason that he could never trust me especially with Gregg and he was pissed! Jason told me that he also had to deal with it all the time were people where so has your Girlfriend cheated on you yet or has she broken up with you. i deal with other wives all the time that are like so we saw you and that Gregg guy at the coffee shop or where i get these knowing looks that say AHA see it only lasted a month!! <br />
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yes it is a annoying and yes it does sometimes hurt but you have to both got to trust each other completely if you dont you'll never make it work Jas and i have got to the point where we just laugh it off and if there is a problem or we not sure or uncomfortable about something we tell the other person so be open speak up and be honest because what you have with your boyfriend has nothing to do with anybody else other than they two of you so ignore the talk because honestly i dont think it'll ever go away until you "proove" that you love each other and by doing that you can only stick by each other and hopefully people will eventually get bored!

They will always be told their wives/girlfriend.fiances are cheating and whatnot. But as a STRONG Marine wife, I have accepted that he will hear that, and if he is rbinging it up to you, it means he wants you to know the things he hears. I have found in my few years married to my marine that the best thing to do is to be honest, and reassure him everytime that he is your only and that he is your heart and soul, and that you would never ever do that. It gets old, but you have to realize the conditions to which he is going through. Just be STRONG and always honest with your Marine. After all, they all ask that we stay SEMPER FI... Just as they do to this country!

Hey, My boyfriend Is at boot camp and graduates this friday... So I was just dealing with all of the recruiters stuff myself. Yes I had the same problem. His recruiter told him terrible stuff about having a girl friend and going into the Marines. He said the statistics are terrible and hardly anyone makes it out and that I would cheat lie and not stick with him... Well that just pissed me off too.. Well My boyfriend knows me and knows me really well and he knows that I am not that type of girl. I am sure that alot of girls are and cant do it but that is not most of us. It just all depends on how much they trust you and love you. I know that my boyfriend doesnt worry for one second. But then again we are older than a lot of other marine couples we have been through a lot and do not want those games in our lives. But i wouldnt worry about it dont let it get to you. If he believes his recruiter over you then something is wrong with that. <br />
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Also about the DUI... I am pretty sure that he will get in a lot of trouble and might not be able to go one with becoming a marine... at least until he pays it all off. But I am not really sure about that though. I wouldnt think that they would take him with all of that stuff. <br />
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Aly