My Boyfriend got a call today and found out that he leaves on monday instead of in september...i dont know what to do...we only have a few days left together....
nicholelynn nicholelynn
18-21, F
8 Responses Aug 12, 2010

I'm soo sorry about your boyfriend leaving. I would be extremely upset if mine left.<br />
But go out and spend time together, be happy and do everything! Enjoy all of it!<br />
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Actually My boyfriend told me this morning he had a chance to leave tomorrow instead of waiting 2 weeks! I had an instant heart attack while in school!! Thank godness his mom told him no! I know he wants to leave early and start his life. But him leaving is effecting his family and me. <br />
So hes leaving in 2 weeks and I am soo nervous!!<br />
Anyone message me for support/advice I would love it!

Same happened to me too girl. You just gotta accept it. Changes in plans happen all the time in the Marines. Welcome to the Marine Corps =/ Sometimes the changes are good though. Like the change I found out about: my boyfriend might be coming home early from his deployment! And sometimes they're bad. Just keep your head up! you'll be fine! If you have any questions about bootcamp, feel free to msg me. I went thru a lot when it comes to bootcamp. =)

I'm so sorry hun but everyones right the only thing you can do is make the best of the time you have with him! and remember the earlier he leaves the sooner he comes home!! i just found out that my husband will only be back at the end of October instead of September but really its a month and yes i'm a bit bummed but its not worth the fight cause no one will listen anyway so look for a positive side to it - mine i'll probably be over the morning sickness that's an awesome thought!!

The exact same thing happened too me, I thought I had 6months left with him but the recruiter changed his mind and he left in 2 wks instead.... spend every minute you can together and enjoy them. My boyfriend still isnt back yet but the first letter you get from him is more exciting than any present you'll ever get. Pretend to be happy for him even if your not and remember he'll miss you just as much as you miss him.

I'm sorry hun. Just make the most of the days you have together. The same thing happened to me and my boyfriend recently when he got sent out to boot camp a few days early last weekend. Message me if you want to talk since I am going thro the same thing or if you want my number if you ever needa talk.

Honey - I'm sorry but you are just going to have to make the most of the few days you have together. mrscplallan is right - it's kind of normal!<br />
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Good luck.

i just dont know what to do? i cant cry right now....but i know i want to.

Just make the most of the time you have left together. Unfortunatly this kind of stuff (last minute change of plans/schedule) happens ALL the time in the Marine Corps. Semper Gumby (Always flexible)