My Crush Has Gone For Boot CampWell I'll start with a little bit of background.
I'm not his girlfriend yet, I've known him since high school and we were great friends, we would always flirt and what not with each other and I liked him ever since way back then. We both started separate relationships though and went different ways. Then Finally about a month ago we start hanging out and we were inseparable. We both knew he was leaving for boot camp the 25th though (two days ago) we talked about how if we had more time we would make the relationship official, and we'd be a couple. And I just kept thinking well why can't we do that either way?
He left before I could tell him I could careless that he was leaving. A crush that has lasted this long- I've been out of high school for 2 years now- Is wroth giving it a shot for. I'm a bit paranoid i was just a quick fling before leaving, but he is so damn sweet and I can quote things he has said to me that would be proof it wasn't a fling. He said he'd try and write, i know i can expect the first letter to arrive within 2 or 3 weeks, but i don't want to dump any emotional crap on him. I know he's going need to focus and have a clear mind to pass all his tests (I've been reading a lot about boot camp) so I don't want my letters to be all worried and what not. I'd like to give him a break from his stress not add to it.
I guess I'm mostly worried that I have lost my chance. I'll wait 3 months that's not the problem. And after boot camp, I'll still wait for him, it'll be a little easier since he can use his phone and stuff again. I really want a chance with him. It's barely been two days and I am missing him like crazy, Ima start counting the days soon. How can I deal? And when he does write should I approach the subject? Or let it be until he gets back? Please give me your thoughts, and advice and anything else!
Thank you in advance for the thoughts!
Edited for typo sorry!
Thundersheep 18-21, F 3 Responses 0 Jul 27, 2011