Anyone That Knows The Aftermath Of Deployment ??

When Brandon first deployed, we fought we were happy and we talked as much as we could. He had to walk 2miles to use the phone and internet so it wasnt that often. But it was a big thing of trust. Not being in the same country is hard and the last thing you want is him to worry about you. Tell him positive things and send him lots of emails/carepackages if you can.



Nothing can really prepare you enough for when they get home. Its always amazing the first second you see them but you wont know until a day, week, or longer if they are really home mentally. My husband isnt. He isnt home mentally when he was here and now he isnt physically either to get better. He suffers from something wether its PTSD or something else. He wont ever get help though :/ . Its hard i have been called every name, been to counseling, and told he wanted to put my head through the tv. But all you can do is take it day by day. He has gotten so much better since all of those events and This is probably the worst case scenario. Everyone is different so he could come back perfectly fine or have some quircks just tell him that you are there no matter what. Feel free to msg me whenever! im always here!

When my boyfriend came back i wasn't sure how he would be. If he would act different or not. I was happy to find out that he was the same lovable, funny, charming, and loving man that left 7 months ago. The only thing that really changed was the fact that he had to live without all the amenities so asking him where he wanted to go to eat that night was like talking to a brick wall. I ended up picking a place that I wanted to go to that i knew he liked. It was like that for about a month until he went completely back to normal. Other than that he was his normal goofy self lol! Don't worry it'll be fine. I don't know what MOS your man is but I'm sure that he will come back himself.