So my boyfriend has one year left in his initial enlistment and he is debating on whether he should reenlist or get out. He used to be dead set on re-upping and now he has been going back and forth. Stressing himself out. He made a list of pros and cons and has asked his mom for advice, and finally asked me what I thought. OBVIOUSLY I want him home. I love that he is a Marine but I would LOVE even more to see him every day or weekend or whatever. I need your opinions/advice on the pros and cons of staying in vs getting out. I dont want to "convince" him to get out but I honestly cant think of many reasons he would stay in. His MOS hasn't had a bonus for a long time so that isn't really encouraging him either. He will be going on his first tour in Afghan in May and I have a feeling he will want to get out but I could be wrong. LADIES give me your feedback! PROS and CONS of staying for four more years or getting out next April!!!