My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. He leaves for basic next year right after our one and a half year anniversary. I have no idea what to expect when he leaves or how to deal with it because no one that i know has really been through what i am about to go through. So i was just wondering what I can do to get through basic and us being so far apart because I live no where near any of the places he can be based. Any information about anything would be great because I am very new to this and dont know much at all. I have been trying to find out as much as I can so I can be as prepared as possible.Thanks!
Marinegirlfriend11 Marinegirlfriend11
1 Response May 6, 2012

I wouldn't worry about anything as of right now, since it's a year away. I would ask him as time goes on where he sees both of you being and stuff. I didn't really have a serious talk with my bf about it until a week before he left. Stay positive, strong, and be patient! (:

If you think you won't be able to handle it and want to end it, do it before he leaves for boot camp. Do not cheat while he is at boot camp either. I've heard of it happening. If you chose to stay with him, give him as much support as possible! (: