Deployment Fights?my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half. we have never fought ever. he left in april for his first deployment to afghanistan. and it was almost as soon as he got over there we started to disagree on some things. but its ALWAYS stupid petty crap. like the other day our skype call got disconnected and he though i hung up on him, cause i happened right after he said "i love you" and because of the timing he thought i hung up. but i didnt, and i thought he had hung up on me. so i signed off of skype. then he facebook massaged me and was mad that "i hung up on him" and i was mad that "he hung up on me" then today i told him i had a surprise for him when he got back to the states. he HATES surprises. but i thought id have a little fun with him and try to make him guess by giving him really stupid clues that dont help out at all with what it is. he got mad that i wouldnt tell him. then it turned into him being pissed off at me about it. i know and understand that hes going to be a little on edge and stuff cause hes over there. and that im going to be on edge and extra emotional about things because hes over there. but i just dont get why this is happening. i love him with all my heart and it tears me up on the inside when this crap happens. i absolutely hate it. and i cant ever stay mad at him or not talk to him cause im upset with him because that time that i do get to talk to him is precious and valuable. im not going to give that up just because we got in a disagreement or argument. were planning on getting married when he gets back in december. and he brought up today while we were having our little whatever that he doesnt want to get married if we are going to fight. i totally agree with that, but its something that never crossed my might to even think of that because i love him to much to want to fight. and when he said that it totally caught me off guard and i immediately broke down and cried. it tore me up when he said that. and now i feel numb to the whole situation. he did apologize and say sorry for saying that, but its always going to be in the back of my mind.
anyways, is this normal? sorry its so long
sevs19 18-21, F 6 Responses 0 Jul 7, 2012