hello, im new to all of this .my boyfriend is leaving to the marines soon and im sure freaking out... i love him and we've been together for almost 4 yrs but lately i just dont know how to act towards the situation. i need some advice please . what should i say or do to encourage him?.. i want to be the girl he comes back to marry after all.. ! he says he wants to marry me eventually but i want to be better for him !