It's Been Rough...

My marine and I have had a bumpy month since he's gotten back from boot. He was unfaithful. We sorted things out. He leave tomorrow for Pensicola, Florida for 10 months. I don't know how to deal with this. I'm worried he's going to find someone else. We are engaged. We've been together for almost a year and a half. I've known him for 3. Any ideals on how to keep myself busy and stress less while not having to check my phone every 10 seconds for a message??
Murphymurphy Murphymurphy
18-21, F
3 Responses Jan 14, 2013

If you talked about it and you decided to forgive him then you have to forget about it and trust him. That is the only way you will be able to enjoy your relationship. So just forget about it and start from zero, like Miranda and Steve in S&TC :)

dang! im sorry its been rough.. but i usually go out with friends when i need something to do. when Alex left to Afghanistan i remember replacing our text conversations with reading books and that helped a lot. if i couldnt get my mind off him i would write him a letter that usually helped numb the pain of missing him. you could also brainstorm ideas fro care packages. good luck!!

Hello! Hello!!! Omgeeee!!!! Your story its kinda of very similar to mine!!! Heheh when i read it am like wait so am not the only one rite. Okay so my bf is at mct rite now.... So yes i cant comunicate with him which sucks!! I got use to it since bootcamp uk. Anyways soo my bf is going to Pesacola florida for school also!!! And yes for 10months also!!! Wow cant believ i found some1 in same situation. And yes when he came back from bootcamp we had our times.. Yes we sorted things out and am afraid of the same thing!! Like what if he finds some1 else or cheats on me uk.... Lots of things go through my head!! Am just trying to stay positive and bussy well as much as possible. But yes i cant get that out of my head the what if he does.... Uk i told him if u ever do want to hook up with some1 tell me dont have me here waiting looking dumb. The truth is going to come out sooner or later. I pray to God that he doesnt tho i love him with all my hear! Well on the other hand whats been helping me its writing in a diary what i do each day its like me talking to him! Heheh sooryy kinda long take care and here for anything!