Mom Strikes AgainOkay so I just wrote a story recently about my mom and her being completely different and trying to hook me up with some one else. Well after that I thought she would be done for the week well I was wrong. On the way to the airport came up and she started bashing us. The convo caught me off guard and rattled my cage but here are the highlights of it.
Did he send you flowers last year?
- No but he was on a boat last year.
Dont they know how to send flowers from there?
-yes but he is not that kind of guy that always thinks about that. I talked to his mom and....
Of course his mom stood up for him you are a good influence on her bad boy. She does not have your best interest in mind.
- no response to stunned
Has he even sent you anything for Christmas, Birthday, Anniversary?
-he tried to send me something for last Christmas but the mail sent it back, and waiting for a box now.
---thought we have only been together for one of my birthdays and he was on a boat then. And one anniversary... So not much to send for yet.
I don't even think he has ever bought you a gift.
-Again no response to stunned
Do you know he is being faithful?
-yeah I know he is
Do you know he is, or are you just hoping he is?
-I am pretty sure he is....(again stunned not a firm answer I know)
After that kind of went quite cause realized i was in a no win...of course got criticized for that.
He dosnt value you...all you are going to do is get hurt by this relationship if you do it long term...
--Did not say this again gone silent. but thought we have been together official for over a year...and even longer then that unofficial...a lot longer then you have been with your new husband.
Then later mom says you know Mark knows you dont like him (her new husband). Yeah so. Well you need to be nicer.
(Wanted to be like okay I must back up your relationship I do not agree with but you can bash mine all to all. Even though we have been together and known each other longer then you know your new husband.)