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I Am the Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Wife of a United States Marine

Please Help Me!

By: ashbear101
Written on February 19th, 2013
So Alex got to come home for four days! thats the good news. we spent most of our time with his friends and family but we stayed at my house. I'm almost 18 and my parents are very strict... my dad was in the marine core. so today is alex's last day here. so he came in my room at like 6 to cuddle and stuff but he was in his underware cuz we were sleeping. we didnt do anything except cuddle and sleep. no wandering hands or anything. well my dad was home and he saw us together in the same bed asleep and flew off the hande.... i dnt get to say goodbye to alex, and my dad wont see any reason. i understand why and everything but it just sucks and i dont know what to do.... i just want my dad to understand im growing up and things like this are what people in love do. ive thought about a few things. Alex could write my dad an apology e mail or something like that. have any of you had this happen? what should i do?
By: ashbear101
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • Storm25
    Storm25

    He still thinks of you as his little girl no matter how old you are. My dad was the same with every single boyfriend i had ever had he wants to hold onto you for as long as what he possibly can. knowing my dad i know that if anything like that happened under his roof he'd also fly off the handle and even before i was married and AJ and I had little sleep overs he wasn't overly impressed with either of us he doesn't want to know that nothing happened in his mind you his baby and Alex took advantage of that. I agree Alex needs to apologize to him in person and you need to have a chat with him not the usual I'm an adult chat you've got to spin it so it doesn't sound whinny lol!! The only reason that my dad backed off was when i went to him and spoke to him about AJ and I and our future plans and basically pretty much everything and then added in my own plans and told him that non of it would change because of who AJ was you've got to stick to the facts him being a marine he wanted facts my dad being a marine has never connect to the emotional reasons i occasionally spin he wants to know facts and if you lay it down and show him how you not putting anything on hold or changing your mind about stuff think business meeting. Also another tip on the odd occasion that we did spend time under my parents roof i always went to AJ and played the situation in my favor where i waited until they were or moving around and where in the kitchen then made us coffee and went to him the point is the situation just looked bad if it's out there in the open it isn't such a big deal same at night i'd do exactly the same thing we'd say good night i went with AJ to his bedroom and before the parents went to bed i was out his room and in my own - you just cant allow yourself to get into vulnerable situation it may be completely innocent but your dad was that age before and in his mind Alex only wants one thing and will do anything to get. you both have to build trust with your parents through your actions that's all

    Feb 20
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  • HoneybeeUSMgf
    HoneybeeUSMgf

    That is the bad thing of living with the parents but as long as you live with them you have to respect them. It doesn't matter what you say to him, he wont believe you (at least my dad didn't :s and It is going to be difficult for him to stay at your house again...

    He has to recognize his "mistake", you know, telling your father he should have known better and that he will work to gain his trust again. No email, he has to stand up like a man and talk to him (being your father a Marine...you know).

    Good luck

    Feb 19
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    • ashbear101
      ashbear101

      Thanks! things have cooled down a lot. im just gonna lay low for a while. hopefully sooner rather than later i can get out on my own so things like this dont happen.

      Feb 19
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    • HoneybeeUSMgf
      HoneybeeUSMgf

      My dad never let me go on a weekend with any bf :(

      Feb 19
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    • ashbear101
      ashbear101

      yeah im planning on going to california in July but thats sure to stir up some problems. but i guess he'll get over it. its good to know im not the only one on here with a super strict dad aha

      Feb 19
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    • HoneybeeUSMgf
      HoneybeeUSMgf

      haha no you are not. I remember telling my dad: "dad, we are not going to do anything" and he would answer: "if he doesn't try anything, he is gay" haha I didn't have a chance to that :)

      Feb 20
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