I Get Judged Too Quickly

Hey there ladies. I'm just going to be honest with everyone and let ya'll know that I'm 17 years old. Not the typical age of a military girlfriend but hey It's not like it was planned. I get judged by older people that don't know me a little to harshly, and I can deal with it, but I just wish there was someone out there or close to me dealing with the same things I go though. None of my friends knows what its like and the only person that has gone through this was my sister and her advice cant relate to me because their married. My boyfriend is in the Marines and I'm very proud of him. Where were from its hard to get out of this city, and he did it even if it meant leaving me here. We met when I was a freshman and he was a senior in high school. And I'm not one of those girls that is still with him because of his paycheck (god knows that not enough haha) or because he is a soldier. I think that's most people's perception on the situation I'm in and its totally wrong. I came here looking for someone to help me out and hopefully offer my advice as well, and maybe even find someone that lives close to me that I can connect with. I have a AIM sn: it's xxgabbyyy and my myspace is www.myspace.com/anythonysbaby2005 Peace & Happiness be with yall, Brielle
YoungUSMCgal23 YoungUSMCgal23
18-21, F
16 Responses Feb 15, 2009

Don't worry about what people say..! I was 17 when me and my marine first meet..I am now 18 and we r getting married January 2nd and I couldn't be more happier.!! =)<br />
I'm here for you.!<br />
Tiffany

Hey, I'm in the wrong posts lol I am the faince to a man in the Army. I am actaully 17, i am no longer in school, because i skipped so darn much and im doing my g.e.d. My faince leaves in a year. Which is far away to others, but to me its just the next day. I notice, that people seem to say im just with him for his job. Im not, that is reasons why i pull away from him. Its somthing i do with out meaning to. I was looking for a State Trooper's experince group, because i am intrested in that. thats is how i came across your story. People never give anyone a fair chance, and your right the money they pay my faince isn't enough. God Bless.

im the same too im 17 ill be 18 in 4 days but my bf is 20, and im graduating this yr, soo i totally understand what ur talking about, it sux soo much cuz i cant really talk to anyone about it cuz they jus say oh it will be ok...but they dont get it at all...

I'm 17, closing in on 18... <br />
They're right, age is only a number...but I too hate admiting I'm only 17.<br />
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AIM: Kaitlynangel55<br />
Msg me anytime!:)

omg me too! im also 17 and i get juged all but too often I live in FL im not really sure where you are but I swear your story sounds so close to mine... If you need someone to talk to my AIM is r03r03 feel free<br />
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& thanks for your advice on family day!

Well, like you said on my story... I def. can relate age wise exactly and your friends in real life. It's so awesome to get on here and be able to talk to people who know exactly what you are going through without having to say a word. The longer I've spent time on here.. I've realized.. all these girls are right. Age is a number and can't put a limit on what your heart feels. I'm definantly quickly realizing that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of our situations.. because at the end of the day YOU are the only person who knows what's best for you and what you want. It's awesome that all you girls know the same feeling =]<br />
& as you said to me.. email me or whatever anytime for anything!

& hareCORPSlove, i live in pittsfield. haha thats so weird

& hareCORPSlove, i live in pittsfield. haha thats so weird

& hareCORPSlove, i live in pittsfield. haha thats so weird

& hareCORPSlove, i live in pittsfield. haha thats so weird

& hareCORPSlove, i live in pittsfield. haha thats so weird

& hareCORPSlove, i live in pittsfield. haha thats so weird

paigerina i was the same. i just turne 17 and my boyfriends 19

hey hun..<br />
how old will you be next year?<br />
n the next?<br />
wait how old will you be 10 years from now?<br />
EXACTLY... we age with time..<br />
so F*** what people have to say.<br />
chances are that those people who are judging such a great couple like yours.. will not be there later on.. but you marine... he will be..<br />
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Age is nothing but a number.. and we dont get to choose when we fall in love...<br />
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please dont stress the small things.. =]<br />
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aim me anytime u need 2 talk ok im.... kims2blunt4u

hey!! I'm senior and I'm seventeen! I started dating my marine when I was sixteen. He's ninteen... turning twenty in a couple of weeks. I totally get the 'wow he's going to end up in jail' thing from a bunch of dickheads all the time. ooh well, they're dumb. I agree with Alex.. i love the girls on here! they way more understanding than most people.

hey i understand that feeling.. no one really understands what its like unless they are in your shoes.. grated now i am married but i've only been married a month to my marine.. and it's easier talking to others that go threw the same.. i understand that part to.. but don't worry it will get a little easier.. it sucks no doubt.. but just keep ur chin up cuz u know you want him to keep his up right? and it will be a test for you but it's a great way to find ourself and figure out if you really love him ( like i'm sure you do=) ) my name is Teresa i'll talk to ya if ya need it