Since Weve Decided to Exile Her

and since you all cant look for yourselves (or yourselfs if youre into that sort of thing) ... stories of interest .... and their 1 year anniversary was january, you do the creepy math

for the people that dont understand

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21 Responses Mar 3, 2009

i tell you what... when i have kids... there will def be rules! i thought my parents were too hard on me... bc there were way way too many rules... my step sisters and i tried to write them all out one time... and when we got to 50 we gave up bc we couldnt even remember any more after that... so i wont be that hard on my kids... but seriously i wont be very lenient on the staying at each others house til i know more... i mean every situation is different... but i knew way too many girls who had kids that were 3, 4, and 5 when we graduated highschool... it wasnt that cool of a thing... but somehow sex was the thing to do! my mom didnt want me on bc but i was having sex so i put myself on it... and she didnt like it when she found out... and i def wasnt gonna tell my dad... he was already mad that he didnt have a big impact on my life... so the dating thing was a big issue for him! age was the biggest!!!

OMG i would of been DEAD!!!! i was 16 having sex with a 17 year old <BR><BR>even when she knew i wasnt having sex i was aloud to stay at his house & if there was that much age difference there would of been no way in hell that would of gone down!

oh my mom wanted to do something when she found out i lost my virginity at 15 to a guy who was only 4 months older but she couldnt really do anything... but our relationship didnt last mong after that... but we were "dating" for almost a year before we did have sex... it was the first time for both of us... <br />
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and i was a junior (17) before i had sex with anyone else... and again we dated for almost a year before we did... and then i dated a few guys in my senior year... then i met matt... <br />
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o my family is prety close and open so things are really hard to hide from them! so my cousins wouldnt have been happy either... <br />
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but my older step sisters were pretty much ***** and both dated guys much older than them at 14... and when my stepdad found out he immediately pressed charges... i told them they were gonna get in trouble and they didnt listen... <br />
like my oldest step sister (who is now 21 hasa one year old kid and still isnt married) dated a guy who was 17 when she was 14 but when he turned 18 he broke it off immediately because my stepdad said he was gonna press charges... i guess there wasnt much of an age gap... but enough of one...

I lost mine at 17 and I told my mom when I was 18, I had already been going to doc anyway for other reasons. She wasn't mad when I told her, Me and my bf at time had been together for like two years, but she was "disappointed" as she put it.... I think I'd of rather her been mad.... but my mom rarely will let you see her mad..... thats actually when she decided to give the whole sex drug and alcohol speech... it was a bit late to say the least but my family is very irish catholic, we didint talk about that stuff growing up at all... it was church every sunday, never saw a black person til i was well into highschool, all family's had moms and dads and if yours didn't i didnt understand why.... My friends tell me i grew up under a rock, not right outside of philly..... but i dont know.... i loved my childhood, it was soo innocent.... i think its ashame nowadays how much parents have to worry.... things me and my brothers used to do would be unheard of nowadays.....

my mom never said dont have sex before your married she always told me i know your going to just tell me & be safe about it... when she found out i was having sex she didnt yell or anything she just took me to the doctor & put me on bc<br />
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so in my book having sex wasnt that big of a deal

oh my mom wanted to do something when she found out i lost my virginity at 15 to a guy who was only 4 months older but she couldnt really do anything... but our relationship didnt last mong after that... but we were "dating" for almost a year before we did have sex... it was the first time for both of us... <br />
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and i was a junior (17) before i had sex with anyone else... and again we dated for almost a year before we did... and then i dated a few guys in my senior year... then i met matt... <br />
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o my family is prety close and open so things are really hard to hide from them! so my cousins wouldnt have been happy either... <br />
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but my older step sisters were pretty much ***** and both dated guys much older than them at 14... and when my stepdad found out he immediately pressed charges... i told them they were gonna get in trouble and they didnt listen... <br />
like my oldest step sister (who is now 21 hasa one year old kid and still isnt married) dated a guy who was 17 when she was 14 but when he turned 18 he broke it off immediately because my stepdad said he was gonna press charges... i guess there wasnt much of an age gap... but enough of one...

Yeah I hear ya on that one Kali.... My mom and dad would of torn me a new one... and I have four brothers so the guy would probably not walk again

i agree with that one! i have 2 step sisters at that age... and i tell you what if i found out they were with a 18 or 19 year old... i would say something... and if i found out my brother or step brothers were with a girl that young... i would say something to them too... <br />
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i just dont understand how everyone around them is ok with it... but i know i had to grow up at an early age bc of my parents divorce... but i flat out knew when my first love told me he wanted to marry me that it wasnt gonna work no matter what job he had or what he did... <br />
and i knew my parents were never gonna allow me to even talk about it that young... <br />
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and oh i found out my lil step sister was tellin her boyfriend that she loved him and i went off on her! i told her that she may not listen to me or even care... but she doesnt love him! she is the baby of the family and she gets everything she wants! but i know she is gonna have lots of problems... i mean her sister got pregnant at 20 (she isnt married) and 6 months after that her mom (now a grandma) had her fifth kid... so my lil step sister is now being forced into a mom situation bc her mom is tired of raising kids... its such a long story... but thats the short version... maybe i should post a story about my crazy family! lol<br />
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but when i think about it... when i was in 8th grade my boyfriend told me he loved me and i said i didnt know... how do i know if i love you? and it happened again my freshman year... i was a sophomore when i told the first guy i loved him and i only said it bc i felt like i had to... (he always said it)... but i knew i didnt actaully love him!<br />
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i have always had think like more like im 5 yrs older than i really am... i was a mother to my little brother at the age of 10... my mom didnt have time for us... so i was forced to grow up...

i was 15 hanging out with 19 years olds (but my parents would of killed me if they knew that!)... idk did she annoy me: yes.... do i blame her for acting a like a 15 yr old: no<br />
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i have a 15 yr old lil sister so i guess i tolerate it more because im use to it... i never thought they would really get married... but i didnt want to bust her bubble because she is so young! when i was 16 i thought i was going to marry my bf too even tho he was psyco he was my first love... sometimes you have to just let them learn for themselves<br />
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im glad she gone tho! :)

omg!!! i missed it again! dang this being married thing! lolol jk!!!

oh well...she did it to herself really. kinda childish of her...o forgot...SHE IS ONE!!

thats funny! she really did delete her account! i guess she couldnt handle the truth! o well! shell find some other place to tell her story and im sure shell get the same kind of responses! shes only 15!

HOLD THE PHONE GUYS!!! she deleted her account? (semperfimylove)???? ashjay too? or just the girl?

yeah i missed a lot last night too... but i almost missed my class this morning bc i tried to stay up and catch up... i gave up at 1:30 when i spent and hour trying to catch up! but nat was great! i would have loved to give my imput if i would have kept up... and i will gladly sacrifice them... they must not understand rape... even if the girl is willing... its still rape!

HAHAHA I didn't think about that! Bob just likes to remind me every once in awhile cause i'm a biter.... hmmm.... probably tmi.... sorry

Random note about the hickey comment- I didnt know the giver could get in trouble, but I know the marine can get NJP'd for it.....<br />
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And I think all you ladies are right about this girl... I"m just kinda catching up on things (sorry i sleep at night :-p) but I think she needs to be checked mentally.... somethings not right in there.......<br />
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dunno tho whatever...

yeah the sleep over thing is crazy!! i know that when i was 15 there was no way in hell i was staying at any boys house let alone a 18 year old or 19 how ever old this child molester is!!

i agree nat lets get rid of both of them!! keep this group full of us stong *******!! not the cry babies... oh wait i might want to watch what i say... dont want to offend any one. dont want to get their poor little feelings hurt... ahah grow a set!!

thats funny.... Kali i love reading your posts! i was reading facebook bumper stickers... and i loved the one that said "i can mess with government property ;)" i thought it was cute!

wait can't a marine get kicked out for fornicating with someone under 18? lol idk why I said fornicate, I never use that word. <br />
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I think I'm going to go look up the laws on that.

yeah she sounds like shes just graduated from middle school and just sounds like a kid, not saying im old or anything im just 21 but yeah she sounds young as hell