CLINGY!?

hi girlies,

so...i need to vent a little. i'm a little upset and pissed off. i got to talk to jesse for a good hour or so last night and towards the end of the convo he mentioned that his brother will saw my myspace page and was like "uh oh watch out for that one" i'm like oook what the hell was that about. i have our pictures up there and little something saying how amazing he is and that i'll be waiting when he gets back home. then...he explains that i'm being a little clingy!

ok so our relationship has been long distance the whole time to begin with and we hardly see each other. maybe a week or so at most every couple months. is it f***ing wrong to wanna be with him and spend time with him?

he's def. not used to actually having a gf who supports him and is dedicated to him in every way. it's not like i'm calling or texting him every second of the f***ing day. we talk when we talk and i don't get all pissy and stomp my feet b/c i haven't talked to him in days. i give him his space and i'm still being called clingy. wtf!?

does this make any sense to you girls?

BABYandJESSE BABYandJESSE
22-25, F
15 Responses Mar 11, 2009

p.s. no we're not engaged yet, but when he gets back we're planning on to. it'll be a surprise to me as it should! lol.

yes his brother is an a hole and is prob. just jealous b/c he hasn't had a stable relationship yet. he's always been the **** that you hate having around sometimes. <br />
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i mean he's cool with me and we get along fine, we actually talk s*** to each other like we're family. lol.<br />
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i think he was just in a mood and just had to put someone else down to make himself feel better oh well...

oh no it's cool girlie. i asked for an opinion and i needed to hear everything thank you!<br />
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and yeah his brother is a butthead hasn't had one stable relationship yet so i'll let him talk his s*** at least i'm happy. lol

kk i'm at work right now and myspace is blocked boo! so i'll add everyone later tonight when i get home!<br />
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thanks for all the love girlies.<br />
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xoxo...

jesse is not the type to cheat. he never did and never will. my best friend grew up with him and knows for a fact he could never do that to any girl. he'd just end it and then do whatever he wanted to do.<br />
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he doesn't go to the club often, but when he does it's with his other marine buddies and he tells me if girls are hitting on him or if he dances with other girls. that doesn't bother me b/c i trust me. and the same goes with me. i have alottt of guy friends that i go out with, but they respect me and my relationship and as long as i know where my heart it and same goes for him, it's fine.<br />
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we both know we're not gonna cheat on each other. we're both very secure with ourselves and what we have.<br />
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yay glad to know i'm not clingy. i was gonna get mad at myself for a second. lol.

you know what i think his brother is the clingy one now that you said it. lol. well he's going through some things himself and i think that seeing jesse and i happy kinda makes him a little jealous b/c he doesn't have what we have. so maybe that's why he wanted to put his two cents in.<br />
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i'll def. talk to jesse tonight about it. i def. don't wanna be fighting right before he leaves.<br />
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ooo the booksounds like something i need to read up on! <br />
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thanks girlies.<br />
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oh! and my myspace is on private so just send a message saying it's the you from ep.<br />
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myspace.com/l3al3yk<br />
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what's everyone else's myspace i want themmmm! ;D

It sounds like your boyfriends brother is the clingy stalker lol, not you! What did your boyfriend say about the whole situation? Did he say that you were being clingy? My boyfriend is in the field all day every week and I always blow his phone up with text messages because he loves getting back and seeing how much I was thinking about him. Instead of ignoring his phone calls, talk to him about it and get his opinion. And tell his brother to back off and stay out of your relationship. That's stupid that he's trying to cause drama!!

so far he's adjusting to everything but that. i'm sure it'll be fine. especially when he's away he'll realize how much he misses me. i just got a little angry b/c it didn't make any sense to me at all.<br />
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but yeah i wouldn't go off like that on him. we both have crazy bad tempers and we're stubborn too. lol. but i know it's not anything serious so we'll be fine. i just needed to vent a little. it helped. lol.

he's mr. tough guy and likes to be all macho and manly all the time that he really is not used to dealing with having a gf somtimes. there are things he's getting used to like calling me at least once a day or even sending me a text if he can't talk or is busy.<br />
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he's going on 9 years and had one gf for 6 months and then she became all crazy on him. he's dated girls, but never really started anything with them. so for him to going from that to having me who is loyal and always there for him is a change.

he leaves verryyy soon. you think it has something to do with that really? hm... idk i thought i finally found a guy who doesn't confuse me, but i guess i was wrong! lol.<br />
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and thank you i didn't think i was clingy. well since he's leaving soon i guess i'll just wait til he can talk to me. i won't try to make contact b/c i know things will get a little hectic and needs to settle in first.

CLINGY?????????????? WTF..... not hardly! you are way better than me. <br />
when josh was home either we were 2gether or on the phone/texn. @ 1 of our request so not being able to talk to him was super hard at 1st but im good now!<br />
ok sorry to go on about my life but hunn from what you have said your not clingy at all but if i were you i would do the same i wouldnt talk to him or reply to his text for days and when you finally do he's gonna ask you whats been wrong with you & i would respond nothin just being a lil clingy

yeah i'll do that but maybe wait til the weekend so i don't make it so obvious. plus i'll be out partying with my friends this weekend so new pictures will be going up. lol.<br />
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ugh...i hate that i have to do this just to prove a point, but you're right. just act normal for now. i have to get used to not speaking to him for the next 6 months anyways so we'll see who misses you more. ha! lol.<br />
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should i tell him how i really feel? or just leave it alone?<br />
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either way it still ****** me off, but thanks girls! lol

i've never been "stalker" like in any of my relationships. lol.<br />
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jesse and i are very independant and don't rely on each other for anything but trust and love. we do what we want whenever we want. <br />
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he's not the type to get jealous or tell me i can't do this or that like my past bf's. so if i don't get a call from him b/c he's out drinking with the boys, got drunk, and passed out, it's fine with me. i'll just talk to him the next day. i've gotten used to that. <br />
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and he really didn't give me any examples, except for the fact that i wanna be with him every chance i get whether we're sitting at home watching tv or going to the club, etc.<br />
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i just don't get it b/c whenever he's home he's always like ok babe i'll come get you as soon as you get out of work and we'll go do something even if it's just walking around the mall.<br />
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i don't get how i'm being clingy. grrr!<br />
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and yeah you're right. i'm gonna re-do my myspace page take some pictures off and add some of my guy friends up there and not care if he calls or not i just will wait a little bit after he calls to call him back. i'll back off being dedicated to him for a little and see how he reacts. lol.<br />
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he's leaving soon i'll def. make him miss me. calling me clingy wtf.

lol yeah we do! he grew up in CT and then moved away to become a marine and ended up getting stationed in CA. he never really came home, until he met me now he's here every chance he gets. and when i can i go there.

lol no not cheat. his brother was a marine also and he's gone through his share of relationships cheating and lieing so he doesn't really understand what it's like to have a girl be there for him.<br />
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but we've known each other over a year now and been together officially since last oct. not long, but i live in CT and he lives in CA so we don't have much time to spend together. we make every effort possible to see each other whenever we can and 99% of the time we call each other at least once a day so we're still very close.<br />
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but just last night it came out of nowhere and i'm a little annoyed. didn't think it was gonna bother me too much, but then i thought about it and cried myself to sleep.