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ok So i had a doctor's appointment. He said everything is going great. It looks like everything is coming along great.

 

The future mother in law.

She has been at our house every morning at 6 in the morning. i mean i love her to death but 6? When im on break? really? She paid for the house so i can't tell her to not come over but i mean really? Some morning i feel like laying in bed with jay till 8(work). without being bothered. how do i tell her that without getting the "i paid for this house and this is how you pay me?" speech???

i love my new house but i really don't think it's worth living here if she is always around. we might as well be living back at their house. 

Jay is so pissed aout it we started looking for apartments.

So i guess me biggest question is... Will she like get over this and realize we're adults(im almost 18 and he just turned 18) or will she always be up our assrs aout something?

Bri202 Bri202 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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CAN YOU BOTH SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HER,HONESTLY.TELL HER EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL,BUT DO IT LOVEINGLY.SHE MAY NOT HAVE A LIFE OF HER OWN AND JUST BE LONELY,PICK SOME DAYS OUT SHE CAN JOIN YOU IN A MEAL.GO SHOPPING?THEN AGAIN SHE MAY BE ONE OF THOSE MOM`S NEVER CUT THE APRON STRINGS,SO TRY SOME OF THE ABOVE,IF DONT WORK,GET ANOTHER,AND ANOTHER ETC,IN THEN MEANTIME ,PRAYERS GOING YOUR WAY,C

woahhhh what the hell happened. i need to catch myself up.

ladies, this is supposed to be a support system for us, and all we do is just argue and *****...honestly its so pointless. i know some of you girls have had your differences but seriously lets just all grow up. im not taking sides or trying to be rude but come on ladies we're all adults here

i think you have a right to say something just be casual and not confrontational about it...maybe just try lightly mentioning it and see her reaction before you really approach the subject directly. its wonderful that she did this for you but gifts are not gifts when they are constantly held over your head. maybe try inviting her over for breakfast sometime when you have a free morning and make a point that she should be there at 8 (or whenever you want her there) then just ease into that it was nice to sleep in some or something like that. good luck!

I agree with Natalie all the way on this one.

Ok 1st of all im glad your almost 18 b/c i could have sworn i was told you were 16! BUT im gonna tell you exactly how i feel... Y ou need to appricate what this woman is doin for you b/c seems to me after reading some of your stories that you just take take take and all you are giving them back are your expenses to pay. & i mean who in the helllllll just hands their 18 year old son & his gf w/ 2 kids a house??? wont happen where im from, im not sayn she wrong though i just think its some **** you gotta suck up b/c as easy as you laid in the bed & got prego twice you could have been at work on your grind. & not to judge you but i dont see how you can have somebody elses family taking care of you and your child b/c im sure you dont finacially and then put more weight on their sholders by having another one! hunn you gotta start thinkin. & thats every mom they feel like once they have bought something its theirs and i mean its not like she bought you a shirt she bought you a house!!!!! A HOUSE! you should be kissin her ***.... but ok and if you move out who gonna pay your bills?<br />
if he's suposibly going to boot he wont be able to and if your in school you would have to drop out b/c you cant work @ night unless you wanna take both of your kids to you mom in-laws that your complainin about! you need to sit back and think about your life hunn

Ok 1st of all im glad your almost 18 b/c i could have sworn i was told you were 16! BUT im gonna tell you exactly how i feel... Y ou need to appricate what this woman is doin for you b/c seems to me after reading some of your stories that you just take take take and all you are giving them back are your expenses to pay. & i mean who in the helllllll just hands their 18 year old son & his gf w/ 2 kids a house??? wont happen where im from, im not sayn she wrong though i just think its some **** you gotta suck up b/c as easy as you laid in the bed & got prego twice you could have been at work on your grind. & not to judge you but i dont see how you can have somebody elses family taking care of you and your child b/c im sure you dont finacially and then put more weight on their sholders by having another one! hunn you gotta start thinkin. & thats every mom they feel like once they have bought something its theirs and i mean its not like she bought you a shirt she bought you a house!!!!! A HOUSE! you should be kissin her ***.... but ok and if you move out who gonna pay your bills?<br />
if he's suposibly going to boot he wont be able to and if your in school you would have to drop out b/c you cant work @ night unless you wanna take both of your kids to you mom in-laws that your complainin about! you need to sit back and think about your life hunn

i mean you have to draw a line somewhere... sometimes you just need to do it yourself just to prove to them that you can! then maybe she wont treat yall as kids. because honestly im not trying to be mean but yall are acting like kids she hands everything to yall & you take it willingly instead of standing up & SHOWING her that you can do it by yalls selves.<br />
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yes everyone loves to get help but at some point enough is enough