Making the Decision...

hey girlies..

i d0nt kn0w if any0ne else is in my sh0es right n0w..

well my marine is in camp pend. right n0w finishing mct..and graduating 0n april 14th, and then leaving t0 n0rth car0lina f0r 5 weeks..after that we have n0 idea were hes gunna get stati0ned at. He wants me t0 g0 wherever he g0es.and i want t0 be ther f0r him t00.we're b0th gunna be 19 this year..but i feel i am y0ung.and he is t00.and i havent started on my career..i l0ve my marine a wh0le bunch!he is my 0ther half..i d0nt kn0w why im a lil hesitant .ther is an0thr pr0blem ..i d0 n0t really kn0w h0w t0 c00k..well ladies i h0pe sum0ne can gimme s0me advice..

lisset lisset
18-21, F
4 Responses Mar 26, 2009

hey love. i know we've been going back and forth on this. have you talked to him yet about everything? any news and updates yet?

lmao on the cooking thing...its really not a big deal. i told my hubby i havent cooked very much so our first yr. of marriage is gonna be a bit experimental w/the food and he has to tell me if he likes something or doesnt cuz im working on learning haha.<br />
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the marriage issue i think is really up to you...only you can know if you're ready to get married. the college thing is a factor but theres no reason you couldnt finish after you get married. i would just advise against getting hitched if you're still having moments of doubt. it may not seem like a big deal but if you get married then wake up one morning and think **** why did i do that?! its gonna suck a lot worse than the wait now. just be sure that if you do decide to get married you are positive, without a doubt that you want that! good luck :)<br />

HEY LADIES..YES..WE HAVE BEEN TGTHR F0R 1 YEAR AND 5 M0NTHS THIS M0NTH..I KN0 THAT WE HAVE T0 GET MARRIED BEF0RE I CAN G0 ANYWER WITH HIM..I KN0W H0W EVRYTHING WILL CHANGE..AND WHAT NEEDS T0 BE D0NE..AND I D0 WANT T0 GET MARRIED WITH HIM..<br />
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I ALREADY GRAUATED HIGH SCH00L..AND ATTENDING C0LLEGE..IM IN MY SEC0ND SEMESTER..I AM MAJ0RING IN PSYCH..I HAVE BEEN THINKING AB0UT IT AL0T!..AND I AM S0 EXCITED 0NE MINTUE..I PLAN IT ALL.AND H0W IT WILL BE.AND WHAT I WILL D0 0VER THER..AND IM READY T0 ACTUALLY BE WITH HIM..BUT THEN 0NE MINUTE I GET WEIRD.AND A LIL SCARED..I D0NT KN0W..I AM ALS0 VERY INDECISIVE<br />
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AND I KN0W H0W T0 C00K THE BASICS..HE ACTUALLY KN0WS H0W T0 C00K M0RE THAN ME..SAD?..I KN0W..I GUES I WILL LEARN..ITS N0T T00 HARD..

if you are hesitating i think you should wait you only move like that if your whole heart is in it because it will be a big change! <br />
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& cooking really isnt that hard you need to learn someday so why not start now