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Im New Here and I Need Advice
A personal story in the experience: I Am the Girlfriend, Fiance, Or Wife of a United States Marine
Mar 31st, 2009
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ello everybody...first off im going to start by saying im new to this website! 
...well ill start by telling you alittle bit of my story..well me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years in july... we have been through alot...he jus left fot marine bootcamp feb 24 of this year and it was really hard for me... ok this is the part where i need the advise.. well while he was gone i had a really strong feeling about him and his exgirlfriend.. so i checked his email {i kno i was wrong to invade his privicy but i felt like i had to} i didnt see anything there then checked his saved files in his email and i found naked pictures of his exgirlfriend in there...i was sooo hurt... and they was sent about a month or 2 ago... i tryed to wait tell i can talk to him about it but it bothered me soo much that i had to talk to his ex about it... to make a long story short she pretty much told me he asked for them and i asked her if they had more then just a friendship relationship and she said they did when me and him first got together, he told her he still loved her and they did have sex more then once and it was all in the begining of our relationship....now wat im askin is wat i should do...i kno he loves me but i want to be the only girl he loves other then the girls in his family..and since it was in the begining or our relationship should we jus talk about it and let the past stay in the past?...and when would be a good time to talk to him about it..im going to his graduation and i kno he going to be very happy and i dont wanna mess that up? plzz help me.. this is really killing me
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  | Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 4:22PM holy ****. im not trying to be rude, but why are you seriously asking what to do! girl you should have more self respect then to let some jerk do this to you! PLUS you have been together three years and those were sent to him TWO MONTHS AGO...that, is NOT cool, at all. If they happened like two weeks into the relationship, okay, not that that would be OKAY, but it makes more sense, because ya'll aren't commited to each other...but three years!?! hellooooooooo! girl, get away from him! this is seriously, not normal at all! and keep in mind what kali has said, he will party, and i'm sorry you will NOT be able to trust him...you deserve better. No one deserves this.   |
| Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 4:22PM i am honestly speechless. some guys are just scum. Alex would never do this, and that is just another reason why i'm thankful to have the man i do. |
| Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 4:28PM kali, omg, is this crazy or is it just me? I would NOT put up with this ****. that disgusts the living hell out of me and i dont even know the damn kid! |
| Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 4:35PM wait....how old is he? it just makes me sick how someone could do this and not have any wrong feelings about it. like he just went about his business apparently, i mean he convinced her to stick around until he got back. girl, kick him to the curb, thats bulllllllll |
 | Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 4:47PM hes jus turned twenty...and yeah i thought of all that...and i have been warned about the girls that be around marines...and selfless your not being rude im jus the type of person where i have to get all the opinions about it before i act on it...but what makes me even want to work it out is because he has been there for me and i KNOW he loves me...it might jus be a game hes playin or sumthing but i really dont understand what he was thinkin when he thought about gettin pics of her.... i might jus be in denial but we have had a really good relationship jus these two things and its confusing me...i guess im crazy....and i dunno if being in the marines is going to change him but hes not a partyer or a drinker....like he NEVER drinks |
 | Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 4:50PM yeah like the other girls said let him go, i know yall have been together a long time but if he has cheated on you how do you think you'll trust him when you cant see him? I mean yeah right now he is in bootcamp and no girl contact at all but once hes out, like Kali said im sure he will be partying like most marines do. Let him go girlie. |
| Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 5:00PM what i dont get is why didnt he ask for pictures of you? why did he go to his ex??? the fact that he had cheated on you in the beginning of ur relationship is one thing but why did he go to her 2 months ago?? |
| Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 5:23PM yeahhh, it really does change some Marines. |
| Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 5:34PM change them how? |
| Posted Mar 31st, 2009 at 5:39PM yeah, you are in denial. you should NOT be with this guy. he doesn't deserve you. it's pathetic what he did. you need to stop making excuses for him to screw around on you, and get with it and leave his ***. there are either marines who know what they want or marines that aren't quite sure yet. There are those guys that are dedicated to their women who aren't going to party and mess around with other girls or even come close....and then there are the guys that don't really care and do it anyways....seeing how your guy has ALREADY done it and he just now joined the marines, not even in fleet yet, he's going to be one that parties and doesn't care....i hate to say it, but its true. you're only hurting yourself if you stay in this relationship any longer. and like kali said, do you know how this makes you look? are you honestly not ashamed of this? of even asking for our advice? you should have enough self respect to do what you know is right. |
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