Babies Before Deployment

My guy wants to try to get pregnant before he deploys in September but I want to wait since we are not yet married.  I think this is an emotional decision based on fear.  Has anyone else faced this request from there guy?



TexasMarineSweetheart TexasMarineSweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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Congrats!!!! I hope your pregnancy is a healthy joyful one.

well Brian and i found out he was deploying last month and well we joked around about having a baby BUT we both knew we werent ready ONE because hes leaving for almost a year to guess what we accidently got preggo i found out not that long ago im 8 weeks well no we arent married but for me its a great feeling i am aware that i am alone on this one meaning he wont be here,BUT then again i am alone on most of the things so to me raising a child we conceved is fine im not scared im happy.

p.s but dont forget to let him know that you arent ready if your not, and another thing is that NO ONE id EVER ready to be a parent

Al is stationed in 29 Palms. Thank you to everyone for your thoughts. I will be talking with him tonight. :) God Bless

We are from Garland and I agree about waiting I was just wondering if anyone else has gone through these feelings with there guys.