I Am the Girlfriend of a Us Army Soldier

I Trust Him. But No One Else Does....

By: ArmyGirlfriend12

Written on September 25th, 2012

ill never understand how everyone can sit there & tell me that i cant trust my BF & that hes probably going to cheat on me or find someone on base! dont they understand that im already a total mess?? i miss everything about him!! & i know hes not going to cheat on me, i talked to him on sunday for the 1st time since he left for fort hood & all he could say what how much he missed me, how much he loved me & how all he do is talk about me. how do i block out what everyone is saying? all i want to do is cry, i dont feel like i need to prove anything to anyone, i know what we have & ppl need to understand that! gosh i miss him , i wish he was here so he could shut everyone up!

By: ArmyGirlfriend12

Age: 22-25 , Female

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Kandaslr91

Well, I would never be okay with my boyfriend cheating on me even if it wasn't emotionally cheating. Especially, if I'm back home faithfully waiting for him. If he cheats in any shape or form he is gone. But, I know exactly how you feel because my uncle just said that crap to me like two weeks ago. I'm like really??!!?? I was already worried that he would never come back for me like he promised. But, next week I go to see my boyfriend graduate from BCT so, I will talk to him about it then. You just have to ignore what they are saying to you...only you and your boyfriend know what love you guys share. My boyfriend already told me he is going to be faithful because he doesn't want to lose the one person that has been there for him. Just listen and trust your boyfriend that he won't do anything stupid. Now, for that Navy guy don't follow his advice..I have never heard anything like that in my whole entire life!! Of course, my uncle is in the Navy has been for 23 years and yes he has cheated on like the most perfect wife. I think if they weren't married and had a child together she would have left him already. But, not all men in the military cheat on their girlfriends, fiances, and wives.

Oct 5, 2012
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- ArmyGirlfriend12
  I know he won't cheat on me, he already said even if his life depended on it he'd stay faithful to me . He's coming home on leave early December & he already slipped up & said he got me a promise ring lol I don't want to lose him & he doesn't want to lose me! & I completely agree I'd be beyond pissed & hurt if Jon cheated on even if he wasn't emotionally attached to the other person because I'm staying 100% faithful to him in every way possible
  
  Oct 5, 2012
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- Kandaslr91
  So, how long have you been an Army girlfriend for? I'm pretty new to the whole Army girlfriend thing. But, that's cute he's getting you a promise ring. I hinted in my last letter I sent to my b/f I wanted one lol..so, hopefully I get one soon :)
  
  Oct 5, 2012
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- ArmyGirlfriend12
  A lil under 5 months (: when I 1st met him he told me he was Army reserve & that he only left a few weeks out of them month, but then on 9/11/12 he told me his unit had become active.... Just my luck lol how long have u been with ur bf?
  
  Oct 5, 2012
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- Kandaslr91
  For a lil over three months..but we were friends for like a year and a half before we started dating..lol I always blew him off..idk why..but, I finally gave him a chance a month before he left for BCT..now, I wish we would have started dating sooner...but, things happen for a reason.
  
  Oct 5, 2012
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ArmyGirlfriend12

Lol I would have never thought to say that! U made my jaw drop lol

Sep 25, 2012
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