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I Am The Other Woman

I Couldn't Resist

By: candygirlg
Written on February 21st, 2011
So he called, like right out the blue...He never calls..  I can count how many times he have called since December, and it's 1.  But as soon as I tell my'self that I am not going to call , then he does?  What is that?  I am like you never call, he said I was says thinking about you.  Then he just wants to talk... I am looking at my phone like what is this? That was yesterday .  We just talked.   But today, he text me early....So... I just left from with him, and how do I feel? I don't know.  I feel good, I feel bad. sad.  He had to leave.  but great at the same time. I kinda told him how I felt but didnt .  I didn't.  I know he likes me because I am not like all of the other girls.  I mean I like him but he really doesnt know like that because I am not all over him, calling and stuff.  He thinks I am safe.  I don't know what to say...I didnt call him? 
By: candygirlg
Age: 31-35
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  • seeingthelights
    seeingthelights

    good for you for realizing you have an inability to say no. iyanla vanzant says "what we draw to us is what we are". its so true. when we aren't putting ourselves first - we attract people that are unavailable to us. when we learn to accept and love ourselves - we attract people who respect us for who we are.



    what we don't realize is when we say yes to them, we are saying no to ourselves. sounds to me like you are starting to see that you have a say in how you are treated... you deserve better. all the best...

    Feb 23, 2011
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  • candygirlg
    candygirlg

    So what makes me think about this more, is my inability to say no. Not just in this situation but in alot of other situations dealing with men in my life. I did ask him what i was to him and he said he havent figured it out yet. I realized that even thought he consumes alot of my mental energy, then I guess that it's like any other man that i will deal with. If we have good intimacy then i will usually think about them for several days afterwards maybe if we had a good time. I dont know maybe I am making excuses.

    Feb 22, 2011
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