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I Too, Am The Other Woman

A couple of years ago I come to live with my Aunt [my mom's older sister] in the city. Our hometown doesn't offer the course I wanted to take, so my aunt's city was ideal since it has a university which offer a Nursing course. I got along so well in no time with her family, since they have no daughter only sons which is older than me. My aunt's family welcome me and soon I am one of their kids. They are generous too, clothes, my tuition and allowances is not a problem, I have a PC and laptop, a room of my own. I begin to love the life I am in, unlike in the province where everything is in wanting. These things however, did not really satisfy me completely. I begin to fall for the husband of my aunt. Uncle Bill [not his real name] is 43 [doesn't look 43 at all], tall, light complexion, muscular body, a corporate lawyer, very good looking and very kind became the object of my obsession. For awhile I studied my feelings, maybe I just admire him because he is the father I wish I have, unlike my biological father who left me and my mom when I was little Uncle Bill is a very responsible man. But I am not infatuated with my Uncle Bill, I know I love him and I want him. So a couple of months ago I seduced him when we were the only two people at home. I am so bold enough and I asked him to shave my *****. I am young and not bad looking and I have a sexy body, so I was able to put out the animal in him. Then that very morning we had sex for the first time. I was a virgin. Now I am my Uncle's other woman. I am not guilty, I am not ashamed for this and I am happy. I don't care if I betray these good people, my point is I want him and I know he enjoys doing it with me. I know this affair will not last long, but I am hoping for the best. We are discreet though in what we do. If there is a good opportunity, we do it at home, if there is none we check in in a hotel or a motel. I don't care if I am right or wrong. I am my Uncle's other woman.
holiemeiying holiemeiying 18-21, F 41 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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I wish to have a niece like you :)

Your aunt accepted you into her home and will likely be wounded. This is not some stranger you are dealing with, which makes the situation far more complicated and the betrayal far deeper. This is not something to take lightly. You could end up severely damaging family connections and lose far more than you think you're gaining.

Never bite the hand that feed Karma is a *****!

love to be your older friend too

I admire you for sharing! Love is love, I hope you don't get hurt!
Would you consider adding me so we can chat?

your uncle must be very happy to have u.
though the relationship is not aproved by the society then too till its not hurting anyone it is ok and have your aunt aproved ur relation.

I wish I had a niece like U but I M not a lucky man like Bill.


It's my life anyway... my future... my sanity... my *****! So what's bothering you?

Just think she in love with him because he was her first piece she needs to find some one else and she will forget about her uncle

REad my other stories and you'll find out you are wrong... I **** other guys too, but none of them are like my Uncle Bill.

Holiemelying<br />
I seriously think you have personal issues because you were left by your father and that really imprints the mind hard. You just crave for that love and you are misinterpreting it and the uncle is just using you for sex AND I CANT BELEIVE YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY TO A MAN WHO IS OLD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR FATHER YOU SERIOUSLY HAVE SOME ISSUES YOU NEED TO SORT IT OUT OTHERWISE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE VULNERABLE TO MARRIED MEN YOU ARE YOUNG YOU HAVE A AMAZING LIFE AHEAD YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN AN OLD MAN OF 43

I tried so many times before to trash this feelings I have for Uncle Bill, but everytime I took a step forward I backslide two steps. Then came that fateful day when everything started. It is really my fault I know that from the beginning. But I cannot live without him anymore, I am too much in it already. I know Uncle Bill is just using me as a toy, but I don't care. I know he still loves my Aunt, I saw it in them everyday and it hurts. But when Uncle Bill makes love to me, all the hurt, all the pain and all the frustrations vanishes. I don't know when this insanity will end but I am already bracing up for any eventualities. Thank you for trying to open my eyes, but call me a fool or whatever, I am happy with this situation being an other woman of my beloved Uncle Bill.

you seem pretty selfish, and judging from your replies to others, angry.... you should probably seek help before your whole life caves

Took the words right out of my mouth! Fatal attraction? Scary!!

You should continue to do whoever and whatever makes you happy. Congratulations on seeing something you want and getting it. We need more women like you. I wish you the best.

This comment is really sad.... so if you want it take it? Wow! Doesnt matter that you didnt work for it, doesnt matter that it belongs to someone else. You need help as well!

Don't be so judgmental renea64... at least I am not a moralist and a hypocrite like some people here. c'mon nobody is perfect.

Might I just add.. shes doing something which is making her happy.. sure it comes at a high cost.. but when does the greed for happiness, lust, love, money or anything else in our world not come at a high cost? She may have chosen a high cost.. but then again so has everyone that have commented.. why dis-regard what she has chosen.. when coutless others have done whatever it takes to grab what they want as well? If your going to pull the issues which all of us at this point can only guess at.. then you should also freely comment your own issues, and your own memories of when you have climbed over a person/s in order to geth what you long for greedily.


I don't need anyone's approval for what I am doing. I don't live under your auspices, so why will I need your approval? Maybe it is you who needs that therapy as soon as possible. Just look at the way you write. You don't even know where to put the commas, periods and the question marks. And please don't use capital letters, that's not the way to write. Go to school Ametist! Hahahahaha!

Let us not judge people easily.<br />
We really never know what is the real score behind of each story.<br />
We failed too.<br />
We lied too.<br />
We are all human, all could hurt, all could possibly encounter a different story that lead us into being broken.<br />
We have all different kind of areas in life.<br />
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She is so good inspite of troubling she's dealing on..<br />
i do believe that in time, she will all make things in order.<br />
She needs time..<br />
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You are a wonderful girl..<br />
Someday, your Prince will come to you and take you out from all hatred and pain you are right now.

@sweetblossom... well said and I wish with all my heart that someday my prince will come and save me not just from this situation, but also save me from the actions that I am doing right now. Uncle Bill is not in-love with me,I know it. I am not dumb. But sometimes emotions blur reasons and I am one unfortunately is one of those who let this emotion blur logic, reasons, and sanity. But I am in-love. Until when, I don't know.

I could really feel your heart, because i know how to fall in love deeply..
It's like a war between your mind and your heart, which would you like to win.
Mind says "do the right thing".
Then your heart says "i will stick to what my heart desires"..

I am not here for you to feel that "not all people is judgemental".
That is your own life, own feelings that all people would really not may understand.
We are all human who can love deeply.
Can make mistakes.

Again, i do believe that in time, you will make up your mind on which path should your heart wants to Go on with..

Believe me, there is your Prince who will come to you and take all your fears and tears away....

For now..
Keep yourself strong..
Try to do things that you know what its really right.. so your heart will find joys and smile.....

You are the only one who can save yourself from this situation that by the way you started! No suger coated fairy tale... we all fall in love bull. He is your moms sisters husband... Off limits !

Renea64 I absolutely agree...that situation is not healthy and neither is she for starting it.

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I can understand that.

I suck him so yummy.

I hv nice boobs.mmm he loves.

Well,well.I think he likes me better.I am the real one.;)

OMG... such drama! LOL...<br />
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First the situation simply is what it is. All of the moralizing and **** talking doesn't change it. <br />
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Ok, but there is a lot of free advice (which is worth what you pay for it!) My free advice? Take what you have, remember your interests holle and don't bight off more than you can chew (pun intended!)<br />
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All the best<br />

It sucks your aunt is being betrayed by her family, but I guess nobody can do anything about you.

getting pregnant unplanned happen even on birth control<br />
I had a friend have twins on birth control. just saying.<br />
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And in 3 years you get your nursing degree unless you get caught before that and your aunt throws you out.<br />
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BTW once someone cheats in a marriage it's hard to trust them again. <br />
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And is everyone sure this chick isn't a troll..hmmmmm.....

Don't crap where you live. <br />
that's all i have to say about it.

i say keep ******* him--if it makes u happy and and both are consenting to this sexual realtionship

hahahaah! Outofthedarkness1 you are such a nonsense *****. If you don't like my story then for all reasons don't read them You don't own the internet you fool. Just look at your profile pic if that is really you! Who will pose with her back showing to the cam and slightly turn her head.<br />
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If you think the two of us are obscene, then why bother reading our blogs? They are never meant for you. Hahaha! Ugly white woman. Well, if I really offended you why don't you tell me where we can meet and settle this dispute. Name your battle and I will be there and I will show you how an Asian woman can make an ugly white woman eat her bile. ah hahahaha L.O.S.E.R W.H.O.R.E!!!!! I never sold my body to anyone for your information. Maybe you are the cheap $10 w.h.o.r.e!!!!!!

Aracata2000. Thanks for the nice words... I like your style, no frills, no ******** pagkukunwari. Just being yourself. Well, I agree that nobody should dictate to us how we should live our lives. We can be who we are. I can **** whoever I want. And I don't give a damn what will other people say. I want to live my life as best as I can and I want my puki to enjoy. Hahahaha! We two should be close friends here in Manila and we can flirt, and driving around with my brand new Ford Pick-Up F-150. hahahah!

holiemeiying, I think I can understand your interest in your uncle. I also think I can understand the reaction of the women to your story. However, I think an older man such as your uncle also realizes this is only a temporary situation and although it may not seem so at the moment, he has a lot to teach you. I am married to a Filipina from the provinces and I lived there for a while so I have an idea of what your situation might be.

If you don't want to believe my story, then you don't have to. If you think the comments are sc<x>ripted then why don't you trace all those who commented? Doubt my age? Why, do you have to be 80 years to be able to write. We Filipinos go to school.

To Weetniet from Holland,<br />
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When this did not happen yet, I tried everything not to fall for him. But the more I struggle, the more I am tempted to do things that are not supposed to be. You are right in all angle, Uncle Bill and my aunt are still happily married, I can really attest to it. Every time Uncle Bill arrives from work he look for my aunt immediately and they will hug as if they haven't seen each other for a long time. They talk and talk while preparing lunch on Saturdays and Sundays. They talk when then prepare dinner everyday and they laugh. All these makes me jealous to the point I wish my aunt dead. I know I am very bad, but I am trying to let these leave my mind and heart but it is easily said than done.<br />
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When my Uncle Bill makes love with me, I know he loves me too and the more I want him for myself alone. I don't really know where all of these will go or where am I going to, but right now the stolen moments is all I care for I know it is hell to stop this illicit relationship.

Dear Holiemeiying,<br />
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Counseling is indeed the best option you have, as pointed out by Donna. Your father had left a hole which you try (in vain) to fill up with (having sex with) uncle Bill. Your mind, temporarily releaved because of the sex, makes you believe it is "ok" to be his 2nd wife and throw your own morals out the window. I am not blaming you, at all. Lets see how this story would look like from uncle Bill's side:<br />
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This man is married. Also, he does not seem to be unhappily married. One day, a younger female cousin is going to stay a while in his house. He knows that her father left the family a long time ago. She seduced him because of her problems. It would have been right, loving and kind of him to refuse her, to discuss her feelings / emotions and later to arrange help where needed. Instead, he takes some little selfish pleasure! His behaviour to her is immoral, even if he is completely unaware of her emotional needs. This is because he is still married. If her problems are known to him (which cannot be ruled out ba<x>sed on the original story), then his behaviour is even worse!<br />
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Holiemeiying, do you see how selfish he is? He probably uses you for his own pleasures! He ignores his wife's needs for an honest relationship. If he knows about your emotional problems, then he is also ignoring your need for help and guidance. Do you really want to have sex with such man? Go get councelling asap so you don't need sex with uncle Bill anymore!<br />
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I encourage you to use your talents to get emotionally clean again, stop having sex with him, and love yourself! Organize the help you need. I hope my comment is of some use!<br />
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Warm regards from Holland, Weetniet

Whew what kind of English is that? Ignorant fool! Uneducated and unschooled. You don't even know your own language, Hahahahah! How about the moralist ***** CharlieOldGirl69? You swallowed your tongue or cut your fingers? I challenged you Old Dumb ******* to write your real names and paste your real pics. Cowards!