The Wife Is Harassing MeI am the hateful other woman who had a relationship with a married man for 15 years. It ended very badly and I in the fit of anger sent 3 emails to everyone at his office because I was bent on destroying his career. He had to tell his wife and she has called me calling me all kinds of names. I accepted this because I know what I did was wrong. Now I feel guilty for sending those emails. Since the phone call she's been texting me wanting to know about the affair. I entertain these phone texts thinking that she wanted answers. But now whenever she's angry she'll text. I want to move on but I can't because of her texting. I'm afraid if I don't reply her texts she'll harass me at the office. She's already threatened that she'll look for me at the office. Now I'm living in fear this. I don't want her husband anymore but his wife doesn't believe me.
I am a Malaysian and in Malaysia polygamy is legal for muslim men provided he gets permission from his first wife. He thought to wait until his wife is ready to accept another wife before asking for permission. This went on for 15 years. And stupid me was hopeful and kept on the affair. Now his wife is bent on revenge on both of us. She's threatened to humiliate me at the office. Now I'm living in fear of this happening. I don't know what to do. Please, please advise.