The Stupid Other Woman?It started 6 years ago just after my boyfriend dumped me for a girl half his age (and f****** blonde), I was going to college and really didn't have time for a boyfriend so I went on one of the adult sites and find this great sex buddy for my needs at the time. Well on his profile it said a "discrete relationship" OK so at the time it was good until about 4 years ago, well I being a sucker for love, started to fall for this sex partner of mine, damn it. The reasons I fell for him is 1) he has a job at a prison (he looks so good in his uniform), 2) has his own home (well suppose to be his own),3) has a car and motorcycle(men are sexy on bikes), 4) if I hadn't said it already, he is great in bed, 5) has the sexiest eyes, laugh, smile, and the sexy voice too (I'm puddy in his arms when he speaks, mmm mmm mmm), 6) he has kids and loves them and does things with them (now that is so so so sexy in my book). I knew he was suppose to be divorced, from his BLONDE Wife, but I also could sense something that he wasn't telling me. Well in the last two years we have come to have sex more often than ever two months and in this same time he moved his ex back in with him and then moved her out and then at the same time moved another girl in with him (again she was half his age and f****** blonde, WTF). And all this time he never told me about the young one(as I called her) until I Yahoo'd him and she got the message because he left it up and she was on the computer. So that ended that relationship(ah to bad). I talked to him about it and told him he hurt me and he said he was sorry about it, but in the mean time he is still talking to his ex and she still has no ideal that I'm in the picture. He doesn't tell her (or any of his friends) about me because he doesn't want to lose her (he says its complicated My ***) and he wont tell me what is so complicated about that relationship either because the way I see it he doesn't want to lose me either. But me being a nice person that I am I will find out one way or the other. I just wish I could meet with her in person and let her know just what he is doing to her. But then again I do know that he has his reasons for doing them too. I'm so mad at the lady for telling him that "having sex with him is like having another job". Now that would hurt any ones feeling.
I have been in the Other woman's place before when I was 17 and it ended with him because he was dating my BLONDE, SKINNY cousin. That relationship was one where he was wanting me and her too and like others, decided on her (but later got divorced because she found out about us [and my cousin and him]). I've always thought of that man and just a little while back found out he thought of me too. He got remarried at the same time I was getting divorced. Damn just my luck. Now that story is one that I could go on about, but later.
Have you noticed a pattern with the guys I see (or even was married to)? All the guys love the BLONDE headed girls,and left me for them, of course when I really think of it all my life its been that way and I've always been "The Seconds Girl". That's where you are not the one there really want but will do for the moment until they do find the one that their do want.
Back to the guy at hand, the not married one but is moving the ex back in with him and still wants me in the picture, one. I want to end it but I love this man and I know he has feeling for me too but he wont admit it. He is so good looking and sweet, well like most men has his moments when he can be a ****, and is great in bed the best I've ever had so I'm so nerved up about it. Now this is just the short version of our whole relationship and I could tell everything if I had time and people wouldn't get bored about reading it. So this is my story and I'm glad I got some of it out. I will write more about this later and better details too.