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I'm Pregnant

I am twenty five years old. I found out that I am pregnant again. I don't know what to do. The father is married in the middle of a divorce. I am all alone without anyone to be there for me. I want to keep the baby really bad. I have been pregnant a few times before had an abortion and miscarriage. I don't know what to do. If I keep the baby I have to find a place to live cause im pretty sure I will be not allowed to live in my house anymore. I don't know if I can take care of a baby all by myself. I have alot of physical health issues as well. The guy I am pregnant by told me he really doesn't want it only because of the timing with him going through a divorce. I don't know what to do this is such a mess. I am not telling my family or friends about this. I can't believe here I am again in this situation. I feel like I have to get an abortion cause of my health, the babys father, and how my family would take this news of my pregnancy. I am so scared. I have to go alone cause the father won't take off from work to go to the doctor with me. I am really lost and need some advice on what to do. Thanks
deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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I think if you have the baby you will find a way to make it.Do not abort your baby just because some guy wont help you.He will have to pay child support whether he likes it or not.I think 20 yrs from now when your child is in college and doing well you will look back and will feel so happy you did have your child and now had someone that loved you beyond anything.

i am against abortion as all life is precious and there are a lot of great thinkers of today that wouldnt be here if there mothers used abortion as a choice. i dont agree that abortion should be the first choice. your baby is precious regardless of the reason and method that it was created it already has a central nervous system. draw on the strength of the single mothers of today. you are not going to be the first nor the last single mother....dont feel like your alone there are services out there for you and i cant have kids do you know how many women out there that want kids but cant? this life is precious

why abortion so you wanna let the baby suffer than not you what the hell happend to a condom did you run out or did you think it didnt matter were you drunk? why you even with this man then if he is careless doesent seem like he loves you i guess abortion would be the case then as you may have health problems which is fine why do you have a man like that then lol