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I Am The Other Woman

But Its Not Love!!

By: deleted
Written on November 11th, 2012
it all seems a little complicated lol, cos i know both him and his wife, and both have told me that they are only together for the sake of the kids, but she doesnt know that i sometimes meet up with him for sex, and thats all it is, sex!! to be honest with you, i dont understand why she doesnt love him anymore, cos if she loved him at one point in time, and he is sensational between the sheets, then whats not to like?? lol, but then i guess thats just my take on things!!
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    tomsahorndog
    tomsahorndog

    Sweetie, knowing someone and having sex with them is not like "living " with them 24/7. On the other hand, maybe there's something wrong with her. Maybe she married him expecting something other than who he was or perhaps hoping she could mold him into something he can't be. I dunno. Who knows what goes on in other people's heads?

    Dec 20, 2012
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    blondie5434
    blondie5434

    If he loves you...he would leave...he isnt going to lose his kids if he leaves his wife!!!! again..stupid!!!!!!!

    Dec 9, 2012
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    Cottondog
    Cottondog

    Enjoy yourself, let their problems remain just that.

    Nov 19, 2012
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    toeyasaromansandal
    toeyasaromansandal

    A true FWB. Wish you were my friend. ;)

    Nov 18, 2012
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    blondie5434
    blondie5434

    What a friend! SKANKERZ!

    Nov 16, 2012
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    1littlerose
    1littlerose

    You know as I read your story I would say that maybe I'm naive in regards to relationships. I thought that anyone who could have sex with another man is because of LOVE not just because of SEX!!!! But you are telling me differently .

    If I will have sex with another man aside from my husband then I am sure that I'm doing it only for love and nothing else! But that's only my point!

    Nov 16, 2012
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    goodseemore
    goodseemore

    I don't know ..i was married for over 20 yrs and never cheated ...he was a great guy ...and i am honored to say i was his wife

    Nov 15, 2012
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      anonyabusiness
      anonyabusiness

      ... is he dead?

      Nov 15, 2012
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    anonyabusiness
    anonyabusiness

    ... bear

    I am NOT BLAMING THE WIFE,
    I AM BLAMING THEM BOTH...

    it takes two to make something work,
    and two to break it.

    actually I AM IN LOVE WITH HIS WIFE.

    Nov 15, 2012
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      anonyabusiness
      anonyabusiness

      ... AND FEEL SORRY FOR HER.

      Nov 15, 2012
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    anonyabusiness
    anonyabusiness

    ... they don't f...u...ck because they have extreme emotional resentment issues going on between them...

    ... they don't touch nor kiss, because the negative emotional air between them keeps them apart...........

    ... they can't seem to forgive each other nor work through their emotional problems or barriers keeping them apart mentally and physically...

    ... in short they are both messed up... why do you want to be with a man that don't want to sort things out with his wife?

    Nov 15, 2012
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    Left1987
    Left1987

    you are cool, i couldn't do meaningless sex.

    Nov 15, 2012
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      anonyabusiness
      anonyabusiness

      ... meaningless sex, is like this married couple, just living as roommates, there is no real love going on... so I don't see why the wife can be jealous of the mistress if she does NOT even really love her husband...... what the heck...

      Nov 15, 2012
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      blondie5434
      blondie5434

      How do you really know whats going on there? You dont! Dont make up excuses for ypur sleazy behavior!

      Dec 9, 2012
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    DangerCat
    DangerCat

    good for you. enjoy

    Nov 13, 2012
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    stoshjr
    stoshjr

    i would continue to enjoy it =)

    Nov 12, 2012
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      harrie51
      harrie51

      Keep it short, keep all your options open and try not to listen to what is going on in their marriage, what they might be telling you is different to what's really going on.

      Nov 12, 2012
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    stoshjr
    stoshjr

    maybe she is seeing someone else! i slept with my brothers fiance once but i knew he was ending his relationship with her.

    Nov 12, 2012
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    stoshjr
    stoshjr

    are you good friends with his wife?

    Nov 12, 2012
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      anonyabusiness
      anonyabusiness

      ... I thought we were, until I realized she can't see the problem is with her and NOT with me....... if she does not really love her husband and their marriage is a sham, why is she jealous of me, and why does she treat the mistress like craaap?....... maybe because she is AFRAID or jealous that ME AND HIM could have the real thing HE never wanted with her?

      Nov 15, 2012
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      anonyabusiness
      anonyabusiness

      ...@hawk THE woman is emotionally and sexually DEAD, no wonder her husband seeks other women to satisfy him.... she don't like to play and I don't even think she likes sex.

      Nov 15, 2012
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      anonyabusiness
      anonyabusiness

      ... it is all about her, she seems to make everything about herself and her sadness... she is NOT jealous of me wanting to be with her husband, because she DOES NOT even want to be with her own husband... she is just JEALOUS that she MISSED OUT ON THE REAL DEAL in her life choosing to be with the wrong men, and that I still might have a chance..............

      Nov 15, 2012
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    harrie51
    harrie51

    Tread very carefully here, the wife may tell you she is staying for the kids, however if she knew what her husband was doing, I don’t think she wouldn’t be too happy. Many wives will tell their husband’s to find it elsewhere and when they do and the wife finds out all hell breaks loose. Provided you keep this sexually based and in prospective then enjoy it. Good luck to you.

    Nov 11, 2012
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    DroopysExpFun
    DroopysExpFun

    Is he the reason you go by Mistress on this site?

    Nov 11, 2012
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