Blowing Me Off!!?I was the ow for about 8 months when the wife found out. Initially he was strict about no communication. Then and now we talk on occasion but always has reasons he can't see me. He says he's trying to live a better life and change his ways. Says he is talking to a counselor etc. He tells me He still has feelings and such. I have questioned and accused him of seeing someone else since the day he told me we can't talk bc he makes it seem to easy to not talk or see me but has always said bc he can't. I talked to him in the morning the other day and actually wanted to see me but said he wanted to see how work would pan out (if he'd be able to leave early) which was always something he'd try to do so we could see eachorher. But as the day was ending he said not gonna be able to he had plans w his son. Long story short we went back and forth and again i accused him seeing someone else . Plus he would tell me what he was doing just he had plans which struck my lightbulb to turn on and question. My guess is 1) im right 2) he had plans w the wife or maybe they go to counseling together 3) he just came to his senses again and knows its not right to see me.
Comments experience anything! I do tend to put theories in my head always been like that then i start making a story and almost making it real and i figure if he isn't w me themes someone else. Oh and i should tell u i told him id just follow him to get the truth and he said that's fine to do it as much as i want bc he isn't lying. And being w someone else is the last thing he needs.