Becoming THE WomanI have been the other woman for 13 months. I didn't think (and neither did he) that this would turn into anything more than a release of tensions that built up over time... but it did very quickly. We fell in love. This isn't my first time in a relationship with a MM, so I'm not oblivious to the truth of these types of relationships--they don't leave their wives. My relationship with this MM is very different though. He is leaving his wife, but it is a nightmare. Sometimes I wonder if it is worth it. I'm in love with him and he is with me, but there is so much to go through just to get to the type of relationship I want to have with him. I'm so tired of waiting. I'm so tired of the drama and the secrets and the sneaking around. It frustrates and upsets me. At the same time, I know that these things take time... and there are children involved on both sides, so they have to be the first priority. I'm just frustrated and annoyed with all of the craziness from his future ex, and I don't want to complain to him about it.
I am very excited for their time to end, so he and I can start our relationship. I need to be patient and understanding... I am not enjoying this at all though. I miss the happiness we had before all the chaos began with the future ex.