To All The Negative Wives
**to all the wives who have messaged me** I have been messaged and ridiculed by many wives for being a "home wrecker". I for one never knew he was married and let me just say this. If you would provide the love and affection (including taking care of yourselves) your so "loved" husbands wouldn't be looking in other places. The other woman is always blamed when in fact, most wives stop caring about their appearance because they are married. Including gaining a lot of weight, stop doing their makeup, and hair. I have heard it all from having kids to having a lot of stress. If you want a marriage to work one hour to exercise or do your makeup, sounds better than a life spent in anger when a man leaves. Sex is another thing, a man has to be physically attracted to a woman to have satisfying sex. At least spice things up and never turn him down because "you're not in the mood". I didn't try to steal anyone's man he came to me. Stop blaming others and look at your wedding pictures. If you look way different and your man had an affair then try to work hard and look good at least for your own sake. I am tired of being messaged by bitter wives. Sorry I fell head over heels for a man and he IS divorcing to be with me. So yes some MM will leave when they are unhappy. Stop using a ring to excuse for not taking care of yourself. If you want to keep your man then look good, treat him right, and at least give him sex twice a week. Spice things up. Stop blaming other women for your unhappy marriage.