The Other Woman

jenn80 what happen to her.....

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omg you are a cheap baby setter...... he out havening fun your home watches the childrens for him ,,,, i guess that would work out maybe he with his exgirlfriend.....your baby sitting ... for them....

He's done it once, what makes you think he wont do it again. Just be careful that your heart doesnt break because of him.

becareful he may do you the same way ,,,, he did ex girlfriend.....

Have You Ever Been With Someone, then Meet another while still involved and say to Yourself - I get along and seem to hit it off better with this new person, friend. Ask anyone it happens all the time.
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Just be careful. He will go through stages of guilt as much as you. That means he may go back
and forth between the two of you, and that when it gets even harder

the guilt will never go away .......

It's sad he bailed like that. My bf of 4yrs told me he had feelings for another woman (right before Christmas) he had two choices...stay with me & his two year old son or bail and go be with the other girl that he just met and never see his son again. We did brake up for a little but but we overcome it and now are much much better. I believe I know who the girl was but I'm not 100% sure. But I don't even care anymore. Because its the pass. But if he would of bailed like that I can't even say how I would feel...

Anyone who can leave a partner and two small innocent children for someone he has known for only two weeks..... beware. what's it like living with someone who can up sticks and go instantly no matter how much you have invested in him. He doesn't care about anyone other than himself... his partner has a tiny baby and a one year old... what do you think she is going through right now. I've been there.... absolute hell like nothing you will ever have experienced .... yet.

I know this is an old thread, but how could you be with someone who would walk out on his family on hid daughter's birthday???

It's total nonsense that she didn't take him away from his children (yes he bears even more responsibility but she's not blameless). He was there every day, waking up and bedtime and holidays and sickness and those in between times. Now he's a part time dad probably being superficially indulgent which is not necessarily in their interests to balm his conscience. As if playing ball or buying sweets will make them forgive him.



I'll never forgive my dad for cheating on Mom and you'd be surprised how much of that damage is added by the other woman.

He is still involved with his child has not a dead beat he clearly chose who he wanted and at least u got what u wanted in still the other girlfriend while has a girlfriend and two teenage daughters

I'm going through a similar situation, but in my case, he is not married to his ex, and they have not been in a relationship at all since 2010. We started dating in March, and they were not living together. But in April, his ex and their son were kicked out of their apartment and he moved them back in his apartment. He said it is just for financial reasons because they had nowhere to go and his ex just works part time, so she can't afford any home. I am not sure if they are sleeping together or having sex. He said that it is not happening, that they are only living like roommates, but I am upset with the situation. I don't mind his kid living with him, but I'm not sure what's happening between him and her. She and their son know that he's dating me. It's just a matter of time. I just hope that now that she finished a training she can work full time, get a better job, and move out again. I'm still in the shadows...

I don't think we all are meant to be with one person all our life. If it happens for some people, they are the lucky ones. For others it is not the case. Statistics show only a few percentage of relationships last with just one person. When relationships break because of an attraction to another person, we should not jump to conclusions. We need to examine the drivers for such attraction. Human behaviour is not perfect!

This man bailed on his marriage in a really messed up way. He absolutely is responsible for not getting out of the marriage before he got with you.

For me, while I appreciate your concern for his ex, I still find your choice to be careless. Maybe I hold women to a higher standard than men. I think that because our gender does seem to feel more then most men, that we should know better then to mess with married men. Did you really think that his wife would be okay with the two of you hooking up? Of course you didn't. I'm sure you understood that this could hurt her deeply, regardless of the state of their marriage too. It's a betrayal of the worst kind.

All I'm saying is that yes, its a drag that he told his wife before you were ready, but I'm not feeling too bad for you. Maybe she wasn't ready for that burst of honesty either, or to be a single mom. I would give it some time before extending an olive branch. Just do right by the child, that would be doing the right thing.

Just be careful, dear. It's a terrible thing that HE did what he did to his wife and right before Christmas. But, anyway, we all do hope for happy endings, even if they aren't exactly conventional.

I just think that you need to be careful with the whole situation. I think he made that decision way too fast. He barely knew you. I hope things have been good for you both.

That old saying is true the same way you got him will be the way you loose him. I wonder if the wife was a women he was cheating with also.

If you do get beat up or your house burned down just know you had it coming.

I have also been on both sides of this situation. Neither is fun, neither is easy. We don't ask for or look for this to happen. From either side! We "fall in love" and we fall out of love. I don't believe we can control it. Don't let anyone put you down or degrade you over it. It is what it is. You have enough guilt and pain of your own, don't let anyone compound it. Here is a saying that has helped me keep things in perspective....... Hear something and learn it, See something and believe it, Live something and understand it.

I trust the people with the nasty comments have no flaws or faults? Made no mistakes. Have never hurt anyone intentionally or otherwise?? Ya right!

I agree with you...... she should retaliate and you deserve every ounce of crap she dishes out!!

you may need this because if he did it to his wife he will do it to you, unless you really believe your special, more than the mother of his children



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Wow woman are so hard on each other. You did not cheat and you did not force him to cheat and he was going to cheat eventually if not with you then with someone. He wasn't happy at home. YOu have no reason to feel guilty or repent OMG are living in the dark ages should she wear a scarlet A on her chest.

i don't believe that all people can remain monogamous, some people cheat. Get over it!

While you can't help who you fall in love with you can see if someone is unstable or not. This guy put little to no thought into leaving his family. Why was he so quick to leave..it seems like he may be emotionally unstable? Yowzers..good luck honey.

You feel quilty because you know it was wrong. Do unto others. You got to choose. They have a child together so she isn't going away any time soon. Please use birth control so there's not another child out there without a dad at home.

All I can say is, LOVE is an amazing thing. It will be able to empower you to go beyond your beliefs and do what you don't want to do. It was just "bad timing" that you met him under such circumstances.



When I met my husband, he was in a committed relationship with his girlfriend of 6 yrs (they have 3 kids). However, the relationship they had was really unhealthy. He was the provider and she stayed home with the kids. She don't cook, don't clean, and was always demeaning to him. For example, because my husband don't read (he was beaten by his biological father when he was born, so he had some brain damage and was incapable of reading), he was constantly told a dumbass and stupid. All the ex girlfriend did was played on the computer and text and called her mom and sisters. Dinner was rarely made. My husband will always come home to a dirty apartment and hungry kids. I've seen pictures of their old apartment and I described their apartment as a pig pen. Overall, she's nothing but a overweight, lazy woman..



Yes, many people might judge us as doing the wrong because we broke up a family. But yet, how healthy was it for the kids to hear and see that their parents had NO respect for each other and constant fighting were at home...??? Frankly, I don't know why he didn't leave her sooner. He was at a breaking point in the relationship in which he just wanted to end his life. He was that miserable....



I wouldn't try to cross path with that ex girlfriend of his. Regardless of what you do, she will hate you. You will always be the one to blame because she will see you responsible at the break up of the family. She will never look at herself at contributing to the failure of the relationship. Besides, what if this ex becomes evil and plays mind games with you after she befriends you???



To give you some hope, I've been with my husband for a little over 3 years now. We have a son together and we are truly happy. We love each other very much. We have our fights and all, but that's in all relationships...



Noone is at fault when it comes to love and noone can really understand unless you've been there. As long as you are doing from your heart and you're not purposely trying to hurt people, then you are still a good person... Be strong! :)

I think the bottom line here is that he left his wife (girlfriend) with a CHILD 3 days before Christmas. That IMHO is very irresponsible on his part. Do not get pregnant or you just might find your self in the same position as the W. A very wise man once said to me if he cheats with you he'll cheat on you. I wonder if you looked into his past you might find a series of broken hearts. Please take a good long look and then decide your future. DO NOT just listen to him.

I have been the wife and now i am the other woman. all i know is that you can worry only about your happiness. after being cheated on, i said i would never be "that kind of girl" guess what. i fell in love knowing that i shouldnt and trying not to. things happen in your life and its not always good for everyone involved, but you have to worry about yourself. i have forgiven the woman that ended my marriage.... actually thanked her once... just once tho. hold onto the love you have for him and dont let the other ruin it. take care of yourself.