Interesting last few days. My guy travels a lot for his job, about 3 weeks out of each month. He actually came into town unexpected last week for a day, so got to see him, and was not expecting to for another week or so. Well since he left, he has been requiring a lot of contact, texting, calling, emailing non-stop. It had been about 2 weeks since we last saw each other.

So my question is, has anyone else experienced this? Its very odd for our relationship, which has been going on for several years. We do have daily contact, but certainly not hourly which is what he has wanted over the past several days. I even asked him if anything was wrong, were things alright at home, work, etc. and he said everything was fine he just missed me. I'm just trying to figure out why the sudden change. Honestly, I don't have time for hourly contact, so need to talk to him about that, but just wondered if anyone had any thoughts.
44curious 44curious
46-50, F
3 Responses Aug 18, 2014

He's probably thinking of going a step further with you but i hope it all doesn't come down crashing later.

I'm sure in time you will understand why.

Sounds like maybe he's feeling insecure over his place in your life, feeling needy.

Its just so odd, because he is no where near a needy type of guy. Nothing has changed, so I'm not sure why he would feel insecure.