I havebeen in a relationship with a MM for nearly a year now, He is in a very unhappy almost verbally abusive marriage but seems to be very weak. I broke off with him in Juky and that motivated him to leave for a few days and see a solicitor however as much as he has tried to talk to his wife about seperating she wont listen and is using evoidence behaviour. I have now stepped away and asked him not to contact me (Day 5) this is very hard, I miss him so much, but he did explain that if I am in the equation he doesnt have the emotional energy to deal with seperating i.e. I make his life at home tolerable. Has anyone else experienced this ? Can there be a positive outcome to NC ?
Cinders000 Cinders000
56-60, F
1 Response Aug 19, 2014

What do you mean that he saw a solicitor? The positive outcome is to stay away and count your blessings. What has he done for you? Think about yourself and that changes the game. It's up to him to get help for his mental health and not yours. He needs to get himself to a counselor. BTW, what has happened over the past month?