I have been in a relationship with a MM for nearly a year now, He is in a very unhappy almost verbally abusive marriage but seems to be very weak. I broke off with him in July and that motivated him to leave for a few days and see a solicitor however as much as he has tried to talk to his wife about seperating she wont listen and is using avoidence behaviour. I have now stepped away and asked him not to contact me (Day 5) this is very hard, I miss him so much, but he did explain that if I am in the equation he doesnt have the emotional energy to deal with seperating i.e. I make his life at home tolerable. Has anyone else experienced this ? Can there be a positive outcome to NC ?
Cinders000 Cinders000
56-60, F
1 Response Aug 19, 2014

I dont blame you---its time for the nonsense too stop