The shortage of real woman. They betray each other so fast. They go for a guy who is taken. Guys lose respect form females like this and have names for them. The way they talk behind your back to their friends. They never really mention you to their mother.

Females get easier every month. It's sad when their daughters or younger sisters fall into their footsteps. You reap what you sow.
sashakimi4 sashakimi4
18-21, F
9 Responses Aug 20, 2014

Cheating is immoral and you need the work of "Lies" in order for something like this to take place,bbecause something is missing at home and it's complicated to separate/divorce and move in with the person youre cheating with.Some women could have knowledge what's going on from a women engaging with a married man to a women not knowing and being naive about it or deceive..Like i repeat myself,YOU NEED THE BLACK ART OF LIES AND DECEPTION to successfully be a chater..You could have good excuse and your reasons,but they are excuses under man and GOD'S EYES And LAW....

These are matters we have no part in, and should not try to judge. I don't know if your assertions are correct or incorrect, but the fact that you're posting them is wrong.

I rotally agree and congradulations on being so intellengent at a young age. They have so many poor excuses for their behaivor that when someone dosen't by into their b.s. they get offended. Actions speak louder than words. If these women do wind up with their married man its not because henleft his wife. Its because his wife left him. I am certain you angered many "other women " with your posts ( although l can think of a better name for them l will not share that with you out of respect for your age ). The truth hurts.

Ohhhhhh scag! There you are glued to our every word once again. How flattering ;)

Not glued. Amazed that you can be that naive.

Now don't be modest. You spend so much time with us, surely we occupy a large part of your busy, meaningful day!

Well the fact that you would all take the time to answer me says that maybe your man is not doing for you anymore. Guess you have to do something while you wait around for your guys to make excuses so they can come over for a quick one.

Ahhhh how sweet, nice try. I come here when I can to listen and to share. I just came in from sitting with the hospice patient I care for a few hours a day to take care of my dad who has Parkinson's. Now that he's set and I've checked in on all my social media, I'm off for a bubble bath because my MM has been my husband for almost 4 years, and he'll be home from work before long. We'll have dinner, make sure mom and dad are settled for the night then have awesome sex, that we're so good at ;)
Ta!

Your so good at sex it took him four years to seperate from his wife ? Oh that's right his wife initiated the seperation and he still allows his wife to text him all the time. Congradulations you got her discarded garbage. Well.someone has to be second choice. You seem quite good at being that

What could you two possibly be bickering about?

She does not like the idea that l agreed with you. She is an OW ( other woman ).

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You just really don't know what you are talking about. You just don't. The relationships we are in are much more complicated than you assume. There are so many ways and reasons we ended up being the other women your ideas are too simplistic.

I know my MM doesn't think less of me, and call me names behind my back. He's in love with me. He cries hysterically and begs me to stay this went on for three years. I ended it not because it was "wrong" but because it was painful. It is between him and his W to decide what is "wrong."

You may or may not understand more when you are much older. I guess the truth is you may always think the way you think. But, things are always black and white when you are young and have no real understanding of yourself and the world.

Don't fall into the trap of hating women, blaming women for all of the ills of society. It started with Eve in the Garden of Eden, and we are all socialized to compete and hate one another. But since you seem so interested in us, you should know, each one of us has pain that is real, and a heart, and a soul, and we have been thrown curve balls, as tends to happen in life...you'll find out. Things rarely go as planned. When a guy seeks love outside of his marriage, any "wrongdoing" you want to associate with that is his, not the ob<x>ject of his affection. It's not our duty to protect everyone out there from being lied to by their spouse. If a marriage is solid, there is not a person in the universe who can step in and wreck it. There's no room for a third party in a good relationship.So yes...stay in school, stay out of internet forums like this, and quit trying to preach to a bunch of women old enough to have birthed you. There is nothing you can tell us about relationships that we didn't learn a long time ago...before you were born. You are being arrogant, ignorant and judgmental. Stop it.

Start focusing more on school and bettering yourself instead of relationships. You are much too young to be called a woman, much less the other woman.
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Value yourself, and you'll find that you won't settle for any less than you deserve. You are worth it. You CAN make something good of yourself, but it's not going to happen unless you start setting goals and following through with them. Chasing boys/girls is not going to make you into a happy, productive, responsible adult.
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High school doesn't last forever. Your time is limited. Make the most of it and make yourself proud.

Just because I wrote on this experience doesn't mean I'm not focused on school. Please read what I told free69spirit in the comments.

I did. And it's very difficult to understand. I can tell you are young simply by the circular, confusing way you write.
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I repeat - start focusing more on your education. It will pay you more dividends in the future than focusing on dating.

Wow I'm penalized for my phone doing autocorrect. I was typing fast sorry but. I'll correct myself

Correction sorry:

Age, intelligence, maturity and innocence don't always mix. That's proven to be out the window in this generation. If you didn't know my age and I spoke, would you be able to guess my age. What I'm saying is correct, no not all females be in a relationship with a guy for the same reason but it is wrong. The reason why I didn't say anything about the taken guy is because of the groups name. Had the groups name been called, "I have another woman." I would have addressed that matter.

Sweets, it's not your phone's corrections that Baralinel was talking about. It's difficult to explain other than it IS circular and confusing. It's just apparent that you are young and trying to impress with vast knowledge you don't have. Admittedly there are many adults who write this way, and when they come here and lay their judgement down, we love to reply to them, as well. Please stop retyping that one paragraph over and over. It just makes you look sad.

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But what does this make the taken guy?!
I think you are far too young to be reading and commenting on these posts by the way.

Age, intelligence, maturity and innocence don't always mix. That's proven to be out the window in this generation. If you didn't know my age and I spoke. Who'd you be able to guess. What I'm saying is correct. The reason why I didn't say anything about the taken guy was because of this group name. Had this have been called "I have a side chick," I would have addressed that matter.

Correction sorry:

Age, intelligence, maturity and innocence don't always mix. That's proven to be out the window in this generation. If you didn't know my age and I spoke, would you be able to guess my age. What I'm saying is correct, no not all females be in a relationship with a guy for the same reason but it is wrong. The reason why I didn't say anything about the taken guy is because of the groups name. Had the groups name been called, "I have another woman." I would have addressed that matter.

Darling, at your age, how about you go play with barbies and read a book instead of judging what there is no way you can possibly understand.

Read what I told free69spirit in the comments please.

Honey, at 15 max, you know very little about men and life and dating and love I don't give a flying screw how "mature" you think you may be. You still have yet to experience life unless you somehow manage to find yourself living on your own, paying your own bills, cooking your own meals and dealing with the wide range of emotions that come with living your life. At your age, you are still a CHILD, and therefore really have no need to be commenting on a subject for which you have no personal experience on the matter.

And for the record, alot of these relationships ARE the primary, because sometimes, a bed is just a place to sleep for these married men. I am not the side chick.

What good are you if your one to share and not one to keep. One to use and not one to treasure.