It's been soooo hard not to ask him what happened at their counseling session last night that necessitates an emergency one tonight. But, I learned long ago that hearing about what happens there somehow always makes it harder. A new rule in our relationship is we don't talk about what's going on with them. It helps me, but I feel bad that he has no one to talk about it with.

We are having lunch tomorrow...another new thing we are trying is only seeing each other twice a week instead of every week day. Trying to create some space without actually taking a break. It is working for me. I feel calmer, less obsessive.
greeneyes2232 greeneyes2232
46-50, F
2 Responses Aug 20, 2014

I like this idea...the not talking about them thing. I think I'll start that too!! Thank you!

I'm glad it's working for you, sweets! Xoxo