I'm in love with my best friend. Not usually a problem but he's MM and she's a friend (I know, I'm not much of a friend to her). Our relationship has been ongoing for 5 years. We don't see each other often as we're 4 provinces apart but we talk/text constantly.
She is using him because without him, she can't afford a house or a nice car. She promises kids but hasn't touched him physically in 10 years (she has told me she doesn't find him attractive anymore) .
They fight constantly, he's hoping she will leave but she's not giving up her lifestyle. She has told me she's been on online dating sites but he doesn't know. Its completely messed up.
Why stay with someone who doesn't make you happy? I'm trying to move on, I'm not going to put my life on hold for him. If he doesn't have the b@lls to be happy himself, I certainly do for myself. I just wish it could be with him.
Vet155 Vet155
41-45, F
1 Response Aug 31, 2014

Let's talk.. I'm in a similar situation but they live 5 minutes away from me and I see them all the time..