Taking peachy's lead.. this is my very first post here.. And still in our 8th year, I wouldn't change a thing about how our relationship has evolved, or the love he brings to it, every single day...

The Most Amazing Experience Of My Life..... I am just starting my 6th year as the other woman.. to a man I wouldn't give up for anything.

We met on a casual encounter site in Sept of 2008. We were both in miserable marriages and looking for ...something, I saw his subject line.. and it just melted my heart. "Why does life have to be so hard sometimes?" Because, I was feeling the very same way. So I replied.... three days later, he responded. He had been away fishing.

We have grown this relationship into the most amazing connection and life "together" (as together as we can be under the circumstances) that we could have ever imagined.

I ended my marriage within 6 weeks of meeting this man.

My then husband discovered our relationship about 2 weeks later. He went through my laptop and found emails. He confronted me and I moved out and in with my sister, shortly afterwards. Things were escalating at home (I hit him and knew I needed to get out of the house). There's a lot of marriage background but suffice it to say, I resented my husband for many things and they all came out in that slap..long story.

When I told my married man, that my husband knew, we met and talked the next day. He told me, he would do whatever he could to get me through. And, he has.

I moved back to the marital home after staying with my sister for 2 months, while my husband was away with family for Christmas. He was going to leave the kids (3 young adults still at home, one with special needs) alone for that first Christmas and I couldn't do that. I told him I was moving back for Christmas. He said, fine but soon as I am back, you are out. Well.. he couldn't throw me out, it was my house too. I let him know before he returned that I was not leaving.

My husband bought me out and I moved into my own home 6 months later. My married man helped with all my moves. He does all my home repairs, and my car of course. He spends as much time here as he can. The average is about 11 hours a week.

This man has changed my life in ways I don't even have words for, it's indescribable. And he feels the same way.

His reasons for staying.. I agree with. So it's something I accept and live with.. just to be with him. Because I don't want a life without him in it. I just don't. But that doesn't mean it's all smooth sailing. We have our rough patches. But we get through them together.

I have not gone one day without hearing from him, since the day he responded to my email. And I can contact him 24/7, weekends, holidays, evenings.. it doesn't matter. And we text for hours in the evenings.

His niece knows about me and a couple of friends as well. His 21st anniversary just passed, both him and his wife, ignored it. (Last year his niece sent him, congratulations on surviving another year. There is no love lost between her an his wife) We think his wife might be seeing someone else as well... that would be interesting.

We met when I was almost 47 and he was 45, so we aren't kids. And we have been around long enough to know that this is something very very special. And like he says... Stopping, is not an option.

This... http://www.twinflamesigns.com/ is who we are to each other. We both feel it and we both acknowledge it.
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1 Response Apr 19, 2016

Awwwww Great story .Look how far you have come .(((hugs ))