I Need Help

So, for the past 6 months, I have been the other woman.  I am 22 years old, he is 44 and married.  He has two children (17 and 12).  But here's the kicker... he's my boss - and so is his wife.  Shortly after I started my job, I found myself making out with him after work.  One thing led to another and next thing I know, we spent the weekend in Cancun.  I thought we were being discreet, but I began hearing that people were talking about us, saying we were having an affair.  I was in it for the fun for a while, but I'm getting tired of it.  He's 22 years my senior and wants to spend the rest of his life with me.  I would eventually like to have a real relationship with someone I would be able to take home to Mom and Dad.  I don't know how to cut this off without hurting him - and without getting caught.  Help!

janellebee janellebee
22-25, F
4 Responses Feb 10, 2010

You might have been in for the fun of it, but his wife I'm sure wouldn't be too happy to know that her husband and the father of her children is messing around on her. If I were you and this is not someone you really want to spend the rest of your life with than get out, and get out fast. If I were you I would even get a new job, and start new somewhere else. When I hear stuff like this it gives me flash backs to all the tv episodes of snapped I have seen where jealous wife offs her husbands play thing. There are plenty of single men out there who also happen to be a bit more your age if that's what your really looking for, don't keep this guy thinking you want something more if you don't it could end really badly for you I have seen it happen to friends before, and it can cause some serious damage.

For once, I agree with WhoTheHellAreYou.

Whoa now hold on.<br />
<br />
What in the **** makes you think<br />
you DESERVE a REAL relationship?<br />
<br />
Sometimes people are so stupid...<br />
it's just...<br />
incredible.

Get away from it before it goes any further...you will get hurt and so will all the others...I know...trust me...you're only hurting yourself and 3 other people by staying. The guy is a slime ball....he only cares about himself....