Confusion And Fights =/
So my boyfriend has been back in iraq for 6 weeks now. At first things were going well we told eachother we love eachother we webcamed and talked everyday but now all we've done lately is argue and fight. it's like all the time and i hate it. he tells me he's stressed out and its easier for him to just take it out on me instead of dealing with it. every little thing isdo wong he gets mad at me for and i hate it. last week he told me he was thinking about breaking up because he thinks he's holding me back even though i know he isnt. its jsut so hard cause he still had 7 months left and hes only been gone for one. he tells me he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me but at the same time hes really stressed and says he doesnt know cause we're still only 18. we're stilll together but its hard. lkately all he does is put up walls and doesnt tell me whats wrong. and i get hes trying to protect me but still it bothers me cause im suppose to always tell him when somethings wrong. For the most part i know alot of it has to do with us really missing eachother and being stressed. but is fighting really normal???
is him being deployed and being over there causing all of our fights or is it me?
i always feel like im doing something wrong. maybe im just being paranoid..i need some thoughts...