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Am I Adopted.

I hate family functions or any time I'm surrounded by my gorgeous family .
My sister is stunning , my brother so so handsome which is all well and good as my parents are attractive people but then there's me .
I can imagine peoples first thoughts when I'm introduced as the sister of my siblings , is she adopted or the ugly mail man's daughter 
i don't begrudge their attractiveness rather my ugliness .
It does make me wonder what went wrong at my conception .
Until then I will avoid standing next to a beautiful family member and stick close to the dog .
certifiable certifiable 70+, F 6 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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@Certifiable - You are not ugly. You may think you look ugly but trust me you're not. How do I know? Well because I have met some really beautiful people over the years, some I was attracted to and some that I wasn't. What's my point? Beauty is far more than the shape of your nose, the colour of your eyes or the length of your hair. It is about the person, the character, the heart, the mind. Funny enough some of the ugliest people I've met were very beautiful to look at, but once you knew them, boy did that physical beauty fade, really fast. <br />
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I've read a few of your stories and I do not see an ugly person. Trust me, your beauty shines even if you dont think it does. And even in your darkest period, when you are at your weakest, most vulnerable, your beauty still shines. Its who you are not what you are.

no you are not adopted it is just the genes you got. not trying yo be mean.

Hey, the dog is an animal that gives unconditional love and doesn't care one bit how you look. Young kids are that way too, for the most part. So love the dogs, kids, and anyone who is capable of giving unconditional love, and they are out there! (And here in EP too, I am sure.) Ignore the rest.

vanity and envy is quite a favorite these days... it's all up to your psyche if you can overcome those things, but honestly... it is quite difficult. i can't even find the answers for those problems myself... i want to kill my brother because of envy you know.<br />
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what i can suggest you do... let's say... let's try to love oneself first before loving others. there's something within you that you don't like, i know it. but this is life, we tread on different paths. and maybe we just got unlucky and we chose the wrong ones, but still i love myself for it... coz i know im right to what path ive chosen... i don't blame others.<br />
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my two cents.. for a guy who walks like me. cherish yourself bro.. it's only you and you alone.. if this is how you feel. live free with these perspectives. your relatives might be envying you because your a type of person that no problem in life can taint. but still help yourself so they cant misjudge you.

vanity and envy is quite a favorite these days... it's all up to your psyche if you can overcome those things, but honestly... it is quite difficult. i can't even find the answers for those problems myself... i want to kill my brother because of envy you know.<br />
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what i can suggest you do... let's say... let's try to love oneself first before loving others. there's something within you that you don't like, i know it. but this is life, we tread on different paths. and maybe we just got unlucky and we chose the wrong ones, but still i love myself for it... coz i know im right to what path ive chosen... i don't blame others.<br />
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my two cents.. for a guy who walks like me. cherish yourself bro.. it's only you and you alone.. if this is how you feel. live free with these perspectives. your relatives might be envying you because your a type of person that no problem in life can taint. but still help yourself so they cant misjudge you.

You are beautiful becuase the Maker of you is beautiful. Beauty comes from within. God bless you...