Should I?

I've been with my man for 3 years and suddenly this past year he hasnt had any sex drive. I haven't had sex in over two months. He is 31 and swears he's getting old. I'm am 24 and have a crazy sex drive so lately I have been wanting to cheat because I need to get it in...LOL. should I?
JNCrawford JNCrawford
4 Responses Apr 15, 2012

No, you shouldn't ;)
You should talk to him about that! maybe he has some problems! 31 is too young to be old! :)

Do it. Do it. Do it.

Talk to him about why his sex drive might be missing -- 31 is way too young for that to happen. Maybe he's got a lot of stress at work, or maybe there's something going on medically; if you can, get him to see a doctor to get a full checkup, and maybe encourage him to find someone to talk out his issues with like a counselor or minister (if he's the religious type). Could be something really simple that just a prescription can take care of, or something more serious that needs to get addressed ASAP. Don't let it go on too long, or you'll regret it (trust me on this).

Would it really make anything better? It would probably just cause you to feel incredibly guilty and wish you wouldn't have done it in the first place. Wouldn't it be better to talk it out and if it can't be worked out then just leave?