I Know This Is Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay Premature But...

... I am thinking about the possibility of perhaps being in a long distance relationship.

Ok this is why this is premature. I like this guy at work however, in about two months or so he will be moving to another country. It was to be expected given the nature of our job but I guess I never expected it to happen so soon. Ok back to the premature part, I like him and I believe that he likes me... although I am not quite sure because he has never expressed his feelings to me. Right now I don't know what to do. I mean should I tell him how I feel or should I just leave things as they are and let him walk away and out of my life. Sometimes I wonder is this just fate? Does this mean that we are just not meant to be together? I just don't know. However, if we were to have "the conversation" about how we felt I think I just may consider pursuing a long distance relationship with him... if he wants to that is. I guess for the very least we could just exchange contact info and see where that takes us.

I guess I need to stop thinking so much about things that may not even happen and just start with the way  I feel at present and express those feelings to him. I really wish things could work though because I really do quite like him.

arabia26 arabia26
26-30, F
3 Responses Mar 1, 2010

Fishgirl nailed it. If you don't express your feelings now you may regret it in years to come. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Let us know how it works out for you.

I agree with fishgirl, let him know how you feel, what have you to lose? nothing, but what do you have to gain? so so much!<br />
if it doesn't work, then it doesn't work, but you'll never know till you try.<br />
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and as fishy said, it is only for the strong, ive been in one, and blimey, that chick failed so bloody hard, but persistence and true feelings will keep you 2 together if its meant to be :)

You could tell him how you feel, and then if he leaves then its not that big of a deal, you at least did what you had to do. Long distance is only for the strong. I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 1/2 years with some one who moved after i told him i loved him about 6 years ago. Trust me, its better to say how you feel, then to wait, because you never know if you will get another chance.