I Realized It Now...

I realized it now that so many things I had done in the past to try pleasing everyone around me.


Probably because I did not believe in myself. I sought validation from others on what my personality was. I thought I would be a bad person if they said so. Or I would be a better person if they thought of me as good.

I realized all this was wrong. The person I am -- I know that person. I don't need to please people to validate my self.

I am though all that. Done.
LifeApprentice LifeApprentice
26-30, M
3 Responses Nov 25, 2007

I'm with you!

Good comment! Love the nic!

Yep. I've been feeling a lot better ever since I realized it, and now even more after I let out here. :)