Woe Is Me

So, my time to vent. 

I have been blamed for everything that is wrong in this person's life. 

Am I really that powerful?

The terminal victim. 

I have no use for someone that cannot take personal responsibility. 

I know my side - my stuff - own it, make amends for it if possible, and move on.

I am tired...  Life is too short...

Get over it!

childoftheland childoftheland
46-50, F
7 Responses Mar 28, 2009

id just worry about you and your child. you cant take blame for him!

okay..I am the guy blaming my wife...why becasue inside I am unhappy...and want her companionship...I don't get it I pout, like a big baby..mature?...no....want to be close to her....oh yeah..the moral is I project my unhappiness with myself on her...outcome...separation regrets?..constant....willing to change...absolutely...BUT there is some ownership on her side also

8 years married together for 10. If we didn't have a 6 year old, it would be much easier.

maybe they are brothers! can listen if you ever need it - sounds like we have similar circumstances - how long for you?<br />
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Mine will be 15 years in April! ugh!

Yes, I am married to him, but not for long.

Hopefully, you aren't married to him like I am! I am continually blamed for anything that goes wrong in our life and his own life - I didn't realize, either, the power I could wield!<br />
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I don't want the power - take it back - I got married to have a companion, friend and partner - and partners don't blame others for their own problems.

I have a problem with someone not even seeing their footprint on problems. It amazes me at how easily they NEED to blame someone else for their shortfalls. I mean; you can't even fix anything if you don't realize where all the **** is coming from.