I have been obese my whole life. I was always teased when I was in grade school. My cousin would have to stick up for me. Now that I am older people still look at me and say things to me that are not so nice. It makes me feel like I am not a person and that since I am fat than people can just treat me like I have no feelings. I have feelings and I am a human being people might find that they really like me because of my personality. Most guys that start talking me before seeing me really liek me but then they find out that I am not skinny and they never talk to me again. I have now decided to change my health and be in control of my weight. I am going to get the gastric bypass surgery which is not a way out of being fat. It is a tool to help me lose weight its does not cure being fat.