Want To Be A Part Of Something AgainI have been single for 6+ years (nearly 7 years) and for a while I was happy not to be tied down and in an unhappy situation. but now that I am all healed from the past and want to move on, people have become more jaded, less interested in quality and just want sex. Casual sex. I have repeatedly told people that where I live (Southern California) has only shallow people. I have great conversations with people from the East Coast and even from England. But can't get a date to save my life. And the guys that I do meet that are datable are so inexperienced with relationships that it is more work to get them to understand how to be in a relationship. I don't want a project man, I want someone who knows himself and is relatively happy and can be a part of something - not just "catching up".
I'm finally ready to meet someone but there aren't any datable men (those who aren't married and looking for something on the side). Patience is a virtue is a sucky phrase. I'm tired of being patient.