My Mothers Relatives....
I got an email back finally from my mothers side of the family this morning about when would be a good time to make a trip to see all of them as right now it is hard for us to be able to drop everything and go, and if we want to go on a trip we have to plan it at least a few weeks in advance.
My mothers side of the family has been acting kind of passive agressive towards me since my mother pulled the stunt over a year ago now where she disowned me, then expected me to come crawling back, and when I didn't, proceeded to try to make me look like the bad person. She tried to cause a ruckus about not being invited to my wedding this past June after not communicating w/ me in any way since the previous August, when she disowned me and made my father do the same. My father sent me a forced email 2 days before my wedding, then blasted me via email the day after my wedding b/c I wouldnt invite him or my mother after neither of them had spoken to me in nearly a year, and hadnt so much as sent an email card to my son for his first birthday. He also blasted me in the same email about not being allowed to see my son(gee lets see here-you dont speak to me for months, you tell everyone that I am essentially the worst person that has ever lived, your wife tells EVERYONE that my husband and I supposedly killed our first child, even when her death certificate says SIDS on it and we were devestated when we lost her; your wife threatened to take away any future children we ever had BASED ON NOTHING!!!!! Along w/ you DISOWNED me after I told you that my husband and I were going out of town the weekend you had requested to first see my son, on a vacation that I had told you had been planned for a long time. Not only that, you showed NO interest in being a grandparent to your grandson-you didnt even send him an ecard, and you knew exactly when his birthday was, not to mention you have never -once- spelled his name correctly. That along w/ the mental and emotional anguish you & your wife have caused me by one minute wanting to see me and the next throwing me to the dogs and turning my own sisters against me- yeah, I am totally going to invite you to my wedding so you can probably ruin it, just like you ruined my graduation and every other milestone in my life, just for your entertainment).
This is the email I got from my great uncle on my mom's side:
Thanks for the pictures. (ds w/ name spelled wrong) has blonde hair like you as a baby. Glad you had such a beautiful wedding.
(Cousin A's wife) is gone to Fla. this weekend. We are going to Fla. Nov 5-8. (Cousin B, his wife and son) are going to Disney World Nov. 9-16. We don't know if anyone else are going to be gone when you plan to visit.
(great aunt & great uncle)
All of the relatives in that area live very near each other, along w/ talk to each other fairly regularly. They have done this for years. These are also the same relatives that my mother told I was running around on my husband when I wasnt, along w/ God only knows what else. However, I am trying to prove to them that my mother is full of it by actions, and I would like to see them as I havent seen them since my grandmothers funeral, over 2 years ago. I really get the feeling like they dont want to see me and are just trying to come up w/ reasons to make it seem they will be busy all the time so I wont come see them.