If you say something raw, honest, truthful don't ruin it by apologizing afterward. If you are going to shred someone don't say "Bless their heart," afterward. If you have something to say, just say it, don't get all mealy-mouthed about it. Political correctness has gone way overboard in this country. It has isolated anyone with an opposing viewpoint. It is a good and healthy thing not to just go along with what everyone else says to "keep the peace".
Make waves, dammit! And that goes for talking with me as well. Don't just agree with me all the time. Don't placate me with false positivity. Don't spew forth a string of platitudes you heard on Oprah. Have an original, thought out opinion when we're talking about news headlines, or what happened at work, or how you feel about something that was said to you. Just nodding and going along with it won't serve you well ever.
Needed to get that off my brainwaves even though the person who needs to read it never will. I feel better. I'll tell that person at another time when I'm not so wound up and fed up.