I Know, It's My Own Fault.

I have been told more than once it was my own fault because I ALWAYS let myself be used.  I accept that, I am a sucker.  But MUST people be such ***** when all you are trying to do is be a friend or show compassion?


It just makes me sick...people are always like "Don't blame the victim." When something goes wrong and I agree.  But why is it OK to blame the nice person when they get sh!t on? Why don't people blame the users?

patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes
26-30, F
4 Responses Feb 18, 2010

I kinda wish I was like them too, but I can't be.

Thanks Exaspera.

People who use you don't care about anything but themselves. Avoid them. Learned that a long time ago. And don't worry about hurting their feelings, they'll just go on to the next person.<br />
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You have my best.

hmm, Asevan, I guess I never really thought of it that way. I assumed that people that use you would "care." Naive, I guess.