Agreeable Is a Nice Word For Pushover

Yes, I am too aggreeable. I avoid conflict at all cost because I like to preserve the harmony. Being too agreeable has cost me so much in my current relationship and boy do I regret it now for giving in one too many times.
l452 l452
26-30, F
1 Response Jul 31, 2007

my mom used to yell so much when I was a kid. I hated it. I think she forgot that she had a third child. My sister was the first and was probably upset when my brother was born because she was forgotten too. My brother was born second but my mom worships him. He is a yeller also so I just learned to be quiet if he was angry. ANyways, my sister was always in trouble, my brother was a spoiled brat, and I did whatever I could to stay out of the drama. I think that by ignoring the problem it will go away.i pick my battles but maybe i shouldn't. Maybe, I should engage more so I won't be considered a pushover.