Loving Too Intensely - Is It Possible?When someone invites me into their life and I invite them into mine, I assume that the friendship is given from that point on. Or if it is love, that there is an unstated agreement that we'll take it further.
When I love, I love with all that I am. I want that person to be happy. I will do almost anything for them and this is just my nature. When I am enthusiastic about a friend or someone I love, they are king or queen to me.
Unfortunately, this approach backfires on me and lends them to think that I am desperate and have no self respect. This is not true. The reality is that I'm just very happy that the person is in my life. To me, nothing enriches my life more than another human being. Nothing is more satisfying than having the company of someone I immensely enjoy. I can be rather unmotivated in my life but it is doing something for someone else that motivates me, it is the smile on their face and the reward of helping them, making them feel loved or giving them knowledge that are seeking gives me immense satisfaction. Therefore I seek these types of interactions all the time and casual chit chat is not always satisfying to me. I like to get to know my friends and those I love very deeply. And if I fall in love with someone, watch out, it is intense!